don't like nipples to be touched

but thats your problem you should of thought about that before you had kids !

I have that problem too. I wqs going to see if hypnosis helped.

There's two sides to every story. You're inability to see this as arousing is reflected by the man's inability to see breasts as not arousing. Tricky for both parties unfortunately

I never had this problem until pregnancy or maybe it was after. Before that it was a mutually enjoyed aspect of foreplay for my husband and me. Like a few others have said it isn't all the time, so I never know until he does it. Either way I allow him because I love him and he enjoys it so much. He knows some times it bothers me so when he's aware he tries to keep it brief. For my part I don't visibly cringe but neither do I pretend to enjoy it when I don't. I miss enjoying it, but that baby is 29 now

I'm so glad I found this. Now I don't feel weird anymore.
I like when my husband touches my bipples with his hands, but any licking or sucking turns me right off and makes me want to scream.
I breastfed two babies for 2 years each. That sucking sensation reminds me immediately of nursing and I can't make myself feel aroused by it.
I'm good with the rest of the breasts though. Any kind of sensation there is great and welcome.
My husband is respectful of this and has never said anything negative about it but because I'm paranoid, I'm terrified that he'll think I'm weird.

One theory is that after having a large number of partners sexually, in the situation where the sex itself is not enjoyable or done for any other reason than to enjoy it yourself, you can become highlu irritated when touched or licked, on more than just your breasts as well. I am a former prostitute and cringe at the thought of anybody touching let alone licking my nipples and breasts. The sex was easy with clients, there was never any emotion, but as soon as they touched or played with my breasts a huge rush of anger and irritation came over me every time. It is definatly diferent reasons for everybody. It could just be that we do not like nipples touched like how we do not like somebody else playing with our eyelashes, it is just annoying and uncomfertable.

I also don't like having my nipples touched, it gives me a sort of lonely, empty feeling in my tummy. It has been like this since puberty. A friend described having this same feeling when she was breastfeeding, she hadn't experienced it before and didn't experience it again after the baby had been weaned, suggesting it might have something to do with the hormones released during feeding. Oxytocin maybe.

I'm a male and had the same sensation of almost wanting to vomit when my nipples are stimulated. Upon research there are a few theories that have been proposed. One is oxytocin hormone released when nipples are stimulated. Since it is considered the cuddle hormone, if one stimulates their nipples by themselves and oxytocin is released, the person may feel lonely, depressed, or some negative emotion because there is not another person there to share that moment with or to "cuddle" with. If one has a partner that is stimulating one's nipples then the sense of lonely may not be there because it is a partner doing it.

Another theory that has been floated is oxytocin has shown to enhance emotions with normal individuals. This means it heightens emotions positive or negative. So there is a chance oxytocin is release when nipples are stimulated, then the person feels angry or agitated.

Another theory that some have already discussed is repressed memories of abuse of some sort. This can occur if one has been abused and nipple stimulation brings back those thoughts or emotions. If one has no recollection of abuse or any known history of it, then more likely the emotions/feelings that arise from nipple stimulation may be attributed to oxytocin.

One thought is the potential correlation between nipple stimulation via breastfeeding and post partum depression. A question is did nipple stimulation before pregnancy produce negative effects or after having a baby? Some studies show that after having a child nipple stimulation can be uncomfortable and doctors recommend desensitizing nipples by frequent stimulation. After an average of 2 weeks the negative emotions and sensations decrease. So when the mother is about the breastfeed oxytocin will be released when the child latches creating the bonding feeling. On the other hand it may make one feel sick if they are not used to it and the amount of oxytocin released is beyond a tolerable range. Everyone is different so consider the situation you experience to see if it mainly is oxytocin, tolerance, how often the nipple is stimulated, and other factors.

I also came in here looking for an answer. I don't hate my husband touching my nipples as much as I hate anyone accidently grazing them..I get this naseous feeling in the pit of my stomach everytime my kids accidently touch them or go to hug me and they're faces rub against them. I was wondering about the repressed molestation....as I did have this happen to me at the age of 9 by an adult..but I thought as an adult now, I had moved past those disgusting feelings..I wonder if this is the cause for me personally, but then wouldn't I hate my husband touching them as well (which occasionally I do but not always)...?

I don't have such a guttural aversion like some of you, but I have never really liked my breasts being sucked. I find it annoying.
I suspect that the nipples just have really strong nerve endings and are connected to other systems. When I was pregnant, I was two weeks overdue and looking for ways to induce pregnancy naturally. All the websites mentioned that nipple stimulation could induce pregnancy, but that it was not recommended because it was dangerous to do it without professional supervision.
I don't know the reason for this (maybe an avenue of inquiry) but it could relate to why some of you have such strong aversions to your nipped being touched.

I just want high light the point that you brought out that sometimes you don't mind then being touched (like me) & then the next minute you absolutely hate it the feeling of your nipples/ breast being touched. My boyfriend like too randomly touch my breast and try's too put them in his mouth & I automatically go into defense mode. It grosses me out and makes me feel dirty. Like you said it's a indescribable feeling of disgust. Same thing happens when it comes too sex I have alil too no interest in it and I don't understand why ????

By what you say about yourself and quite a few others who have written here it sounds like it could be repressed feelings to something that has happened in your past why you feel this way now towards having someone else touch your nipples or towards no interest in sexual intercourse.
Is it just the fact you don't like your boyfriend touching your nipples or is it when anything touches them ie yourself, a bra, other clothing he you go braless or even just water when you take a shower?

I want to show off my breasts in the public so people can touch my nipples. I don't care if I feel uncomfortable.

I am so happy to have fun with thread. I have been suffering from this problem for a very long time. Having my breasts touched, licked or sucked can diminish or totally kill my arousal. there are times when I like it but that is not often.
I was molested when I was younger and I don't know if th e two things are related. Is there anyone who has overcome it?

I also have the same feeling with my nipples being sucked on. It feels like it hits some kind of nerve and it's not pleasant at all. I get angry. There was times I got mad at my partner and pushed him off. The same has been happening with receiving oral. I can't stand the feeling of saliva down there. This started about a year ago. I always enjoyed it very much. Don't know what is happening. It gets me so angry. Is anyone feeling the same? Help...