i think I have the answer. I had the same thing for a while. Mainly during sex. I realise it changed the feelings of us being equal sexual adults to my boyfriend become a nursing child at my breast. Now I have strong maternal feelings and I wonder if nature has somehow put this inside us to protect the survival od the human race...they are after all meant to be the babies feeding bottles. Men have pain when their testicles are attacked for the same reason in my mind. This is only my thoughts and like other women I can also switch to being highly aroused by it and almost crave nipple stimulation when close to orgasm....but I think it really is connected to ensuring we protect them, especially the anger feeling when accidently grazed..it would make sense to me that nature would want us to look after the next generations feeding equiptment. My current boyfriend is addicted to having his own nipples played with, they are almost like a switch to him, if I tweak them he cant control himself and ends up needing instantly to have sex and climax. He is also in to rough sex and likes to have his testicles tied up to an uncomfortable degree too...which makes me think he likes to feel bad during sex for other reasons...probably due to him being a devout christian and beleiving ultimately the only intimate relationship he should have is with god, so to make allowances for it, he likes to feel I have taken control and forced the urges out of hjm...that way I am the evil one and not him. (If that makes sense?)
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Its sad you felt like that when breatfeeding, but you are not alone, many mothers are unable to breast feed for various reasons but maybe they secretly all felt the same way as you have mentioned. I enjoyed breastfeeding despite not liking nipple stimulation in sex, the feelings when my 3 children breast fed felt completely natural and lovely, really innocent bonding and totally different to other nipple stimulation during foreplay etc. So if others are worried they may react like that breastfeeding, it may not be the case.
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I'm only 16 and I hate my nipples being touched nobody really touches them 'cause I don't have a boyfriend thank god but like when people accidentally touch my nipples I HATE it and can't stand it and it's a huge problem when in in the shower trying to wash my nipples I'm afraid to touch them and I don't like it I just want some help why are they so sensitive? And is there anything I can do to make it stop?
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17 year old female. Hypothyroidism controled by levothyroxine for 10+ years now, lesbian, no history of sexual abuse. Emotionally abuse mom and emotionally distant dad (who also had a drinking problem until I was around 8). No idea what's going on.
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this is obviously an issue that lots of women have and you're just making them feel bad about it.
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This is exactly the same as me.
I want to punch my partner in the face and scream at the top of my lunch if he accidentally touches them, even if he goes near them, I instantly jump. It's so aggravating and I don't know why I am like this. If he manages to get me in the mood, it's perfectly fine for some reason, bit that's a rarity.
I want to punch my partner in the face and scream at the top of my lunch if he accidentally touches them, even if he goes near them, I instantly jump. It's so aggravating and I don't know why I am like this. If he manages to get me in the mood, it's perfectly fine for some reason, bit that's a rarity.
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I think it is hormonal. This happened to me post children, and I am pretty disappointed about it. But I am not going to get myself upset because of it. I hope my husband will eventually move with it. Speaking more generally about it, my belief is that it's not right to disrespect someone's limits when they are allowing you to be intimate with them. But that is how it could feel if someone believes you can - or should - get over it. Especially when you are not deciding to withhold from your partner, you are sharing your boundaries - boundaries you can't help. I find the notion that we need to get over it or past it a little bit, childish? Not sure if that is the right word as it sounds like a put down and that's not my intention, but if this is the way so many of us feel, while it's a drag maybe it's just something we and our partners need to accept! It's not the end of sex, there's a lot of fun to be had within each person's comfort zone. To me it comes down to mutual respect and understanding. And hopefully it will go away as mysteriously as it came. Now that would be a result! Good luck everyone who has this issue , or whose partner does.
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it shouldn't be a rare occasion when you get her writhing in ecstasy, why don't you try thinking about her pleasure rather than yours?
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I feel the same way! I need to know why! I feel so pissed off and disgusted inside! Its an instant feeling. I feel terrible about it because sometimes when my bra or my daughter touches I get SO MAD .
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I'm a woman with exceptionally large breasts and small nipples. I want to believe that maybe this is the reason why I am sensitive to being touched. I let my fiancee touch them but it feels like a tingle and not a good one. I try to clear my head but it just drives me crazy. Maybe its hormones... the dirty thought of being milked like a cow...but nothing coming out.I want to get over the feeling of disgust when my breasts are touched or even brush across something.
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Thank you for saying that. I ABSOLUTELY HATE THAT. Why do men concentrate on the nipple. It really pisses me off as well. I don't feel weird anymore.
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I feel the same way. IDK sometimes it feels OK. When I'm tipsy particularly. But when it's just a regular session and he lifts my bra off then sucks on my breasts OMG I just feel like I can't stand to have them touched. Theyre cradled inside a bra all day so therefore they stay warm. The stay covered. Then my mama wants to make that cold air hit them after he's sucked all over them. Yuck. It's the most irritating feeling. I figuring that it's an hormonal problem. And maybe sex is wanted too much by my significant other. It's a turn off. Especially if he gets mad bc I'm not in the mood. I need time to miss him. Sex everyday and sometimes twice a day. Can get old. Space it out. THAT WILL BRING THE WARMTH BACK.
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