Let your hubby suck your boobs then you will start to like it more.
I'm agree I'm a breast man cant go to sleep without my hand in my wife shirt touching her breast she get irretated if we not making love I need a remedy so I can touch dem a the time
Man, i am happy.. I feel too happy, i've always thought that I was suffring from sth.. But.. Many women here have the same issue! That feeling that maybe I got molested when I was young scared me, but I am pretty sure nothing like this happened, I live in a happy household loved by everyone. So what I can say now, is maybe our breasts are more sensitive.. So it becomes irritating.. Once I remember, i was about to cry. Well the problem is, my ex understood that, and never touched them again for 3 years. My new girlfriend doesn't know abt it, and explaining the whole thing again is just tiring.. So i am bearing for now.. And guess no solution for it.. Except that's how it is... But at least I feel happy about the fact that I am not alone lol.
I suggest to get them surgically removed. That's what I am in the process of doing. It's not like you need them for any main reason. The only thing they are really for is if you want to breastfeed and who the f**k wants to do that?! Get them useless annoying things cut off, you will be happier and trust me you won't miss them. After all they don't do anything for your body anyways.
That's a lie. If my boyfriend sucked on my breasts he would have a black eye. He knows I hate it. She should get them surgically removed.
No need to feel bad. We are the way we are. We don't need to enjoy it. The only thing we need to do is remove our nipples from our bodies. Women don't need nipples for survival. I pray that your wife hates it soon, because no woman should like a body part touched that shouldn't exist in the first place.
If she leaves you for it I wouldn't blame her. You are clearly the problem! Leave her useless nipples alone, she hates it stop forcing her!! If you continue to do so I seriously hope she leaves you and finds someone who will leave her boobs alone.
I have the same problem! I am so glad to know I'm not the only woman. I really need help with this because its a very serious problem in the bedroom!
I thought I was like the only one!! I hate it so much super huge turn off it makes me sick even if I do it to myself..
Hello Guest! I think your assessment, at least for my situation, is spot-on! "I agree this is emotional. She does associate breasts with over-dependence and just does not tolerate people hanging on to her." This really hit me! I've never been able to sum up how I feel about it, but I think this is it! I now have an almost 5-yo daughter. I gave birth naturally with no regrets; I breastfed her as long as she wanted (only 10 months) despite hating every minute of it physically because it hurt so badly for the first few months (even though I was doing everything correctly; according to an expert I was seeing to help me through); I loved breastfeeding her as long as I did because I knew it was making her strong and healthy. "She is a great mom, she's sexy, but a chasm has developed between us. I associate the beginning of the distancing with the onset of nipple touch aversion. She ceased being warm and cuddling towards me. Actually child birth made her reinterpret our roles in our marriage. We did take care of each other before the kids and all of a sudden she is saying, "time to grow up and become father and mother, I have kids now and things are different"." I feel this happened between me and my husband, too. And this may be why I'm so turned off by his touching my breasts, particularly my nipples. We planned not to have kids, but my body decided otherwise early on in our marriage. I feel like I jumped on board full steam ahead with our unexpected situation, and despite his valiant efforts to keep up, I feel like I'm always pulling my husband along with our daughter. I have noticed just in the past month how un-cuddly I am with my husband now. It may be because any time we do cuddle with no one else around, he reaches for my breasts and I don't want them touched. I believe I do see him as another person to take care of in our household, rather than my partner/teammate in our marriage...which is weird because I definitely consciously think of thim this way. This has bothered me for a long time, and I haven't known how to befing "fixing" it. I think your much-appreciated thoughts on it will help me move forward, even if just a little bit. :) I hate being stagnant.
This is definitely the absolute best explanation for this strange feeling I've seen so far!!
This is the most logical answer, hormonal. The feeling I get could easily be described as an anxiety attack, annoying, and I want to jump up and scream!!!! " I have other body parts that you could be touching and kissing to make me go over the moon turned on!!! My neck, my back, lightly caress my BODY while kissing me. Immediately my hands will be reaching for YOUR favorite parts that you want touched. If a woman doesn't like the boob sucking it probably means she has other very sensitive arousal parts that need attention. Get with it dudes!
You hate it cuz it's small
No one asked you about your opinion on the female body.
Notice it's only men who are posting negative things about this topic. You have no idea what it's like.
Imagine someone trying to anally rape you. It's the same feeling....I feel sorry for your girlfriends that you won't let them do this to you.....