don't like nipples to be touched

Guest over a year ago

I have the same issue. But it's mostly when someone is trying to be tender with them. It totally sceeves me out. Now...if someone goes to town on them and is really sacking on them , I don't mind. But that creepy weird gloss over with a hand or tongue has initiated many a shutter push away. Same thing with having oral performed on me...if they get in there and I can really feel it...I'm good but anything done lightly, I'm horrified and feel disgusted in myself. Sorry if I got to graphic here. Just trying to be illustrative to make a point

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Guest over a year ago

*sucking..not "sacking"

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Guest over a year ago

Same here if anybody touches my nipples its pisses me off

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Guest over a year ago

I'm the same way and my husband asks me all the time if I love him or not because I don't ike my boobs messed with i need an answer

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Guest over a year ago

Wow!!! I can't believe this is actually a more common thing than I realised. I have had this for years and always thought I was on the brink of losing my mind or being slighty mad. I get this disgusted feeling when I'm in the shower sometimes too, and I think it's the same thing, or the water against my nipples !! So weird. I'm really worried when it comes to having children and breastfeeding that I won't be able to tolerate it!!

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Guest over a year ago

I find it interesting that so many people that have replied grapple for Freudian reasons for their emotions, like repressed memories of molestation (that guy really did a lot of damage with his unscientific, intuitive nonsense). Anyway, I have had hyperesthesia in my nipples since adolescence. I feel acute discomfort, a sickening feeling when grazed across the nipples - flinching violently. When the body experiences something like this, I believe that there is most often a biological cause (not psychological, although psychological damage can result from a prolonged and chronic negative sensation like this). The nerve sensation is probably not normal in that it produces such discomfort. The nipple nerves are wired to the same part of the brain that lights up during arousal/orgasm, so it stands to reason that powerful feelings would be triggered when there is such acute hypersensitivity of the nerve signaling. I process this objectively and logically even though I experience a disgusting and maddening sensation. Strange thing is that doctors don't seem to want to touch this topic. What is up with that?

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Guest over a year ago

me too. I was raped when i was almost 20. it is how i lost my virginity. he latched on to my right nipple and sucked so hard that my once perfect breasts are now uneven, my right breast grew larger and the nipple and areola are twice the size of the other. it gave me nerve damage and i cannot even stand to have shower water touch it....24 years later...still...they are still ruined and uneven and damaged from one selfish big baby rapist who used me like a chew toy. it ruined sex for me and each time i tried it i hated it. i had an indian boyfriend last who would hold me down and tug and scrape at mynipples because he took pleasure in making me cry. he used me because his mom said white girls do not count. i have been celebate for almost ten years now. at 32 i accepted that i am damaged amd now at almost 42 i barely go in public because i am beautiful and cannot stand to b hit on. i wear an xs sports bra to keep them in tight and am soon going to get my right breast reduced and the nipple tucked. breasts are easily destroyed, especially nipples. i really had two perfect round ones and now only my left one is perfect. i will never have sex again and cannot wait to die and be born on a better planet with no sex. humans are evil animals. i am done. i cant even touch my own nipples.

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Guest over a year ago

I read 2 pages of the comments under this topic. Unfortunately I didn't see any answers. I was molested as I child-- I was trying to find any advice that someone may have on how they deal with this " pet peeve"/irritation. I worry about how this will affect my mental state with intimacy. Any contact with my nipples absolutely disgusts me. I cannot stand it. I get the same effect when I see "this happening" to another woman regardless if she is breast feeding. I HATED when my mother breast fed my younger sibling. I never want to breast feed. I'm not afraid to tell my bf no, I just tire of getting frustrated and feeling dirty and helpless after something (a towel, bra, shower faucet water, door) accidentally touches my nipples.

- frustrated female college student

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Guest over a year ago

u have figured it out... i think u are 100% correct. in my case anyway . i wish my hubby could understand. then he would know when to go for it and when to back off before i'm completely turned off

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Guest over a year ago

The best explanation that i found actually came from a concerned husband who's wife suffered from this issue:

"My theory is maybe she has the same reaction as most women do to having their nipples touched, but something makes it go on overload as far as her senses are concerned. When not in the throws of love making its just way too much to handle, but when she gets turned on enough it balances out. I have absolutely no medical evidence to support this. Just a theory. "

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Guest over a year ago

Yes!!!! I don't know what's wrong with me, I literally get depressed and set of anxiety! Please answer why! When they get sucked and played with it makes me feel sad, I couldn't even breast feed at all it was not a nice feeling!

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Guest over a year ago

I don't like when my Man touch my nipples and my books what do that mean

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Guest over a year ago

I feel the same way! My husband will walk up and just start rubbing my nipples or start sucking them no matter what I'm doing. Most of the time I push him away and tell him to stop! He gets offended and upset. He feels that he should be able to touch me when he gets ready. I disagree because a lot of times I'm not in the mindset when he starts touching my nipples. I told him I'm like a car in the winter time you have to warm me up first with a kiss and squeeze my butt not go straight for the kill! What's wrong with that? WD

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Guest over a year ago

That's pleasure for YOU. IT DOESN'T FEEL GOOD TO THEM SO THEY AREN'T MISSING OUT ON ANYTHING LOL

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Guest over a year ago

This is a real problem for some of the ladies on here and you saying you feel real bad that we're "missing out" doesn't help at all. It's not an option to just turn off a switch that will make it comfortable enough to become aroused when our breasts are being touched.

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