Hi, i'm only 13 and have been masterbating for about a year. my mom has not found out and i would like to keep it this way. i Found a hand massager in one of our bookselves(god knows why there..) and i started playing around with it...but idk if this is okay..and all the orgasms i've ever had last like 4 seconds..i have not had my period, and i have'nt had sex yet...i wanted to know how i'm supposed to have a longer orgasm w/o actual sex and how to "squirt" nothing i do seems to work. HELP! =]
First of all, thats how long orgasms are. Sadly, they do only last a few seconds. You can attempt to make them a few seconds longer by practicing kegal exercises (squeezing and releasing the muscles you use when you pee...) and then tightening those up as you are about to cum.
Second, it's hard for most people to "squirt" and most girls never do. Squirting is usually the result of a g-spot orgasm, so you wouldn't be able to do that with your hand massager.
Second, it's hard for most people to "squirt" and most girls never do. Squirting is usually the result of a g-spot orgasm, so you wouldn't be able to do that with your hand massager.