Hey, so im new to the site but have found it so far very useful. Okay so what im asking is how to make masterbation better? I can not buy toys either btw. Im only 14. Ive only been masterbating since 12, i dont want to have a guy to do this for me (all the guys i know are literally mostly d*cks) I cant get help from my firends either (ive heard this sugesstion too). What i do is in the shower use a shaver in my vagina and have the shower jet hit my clit. I do this sitting with the detachable shower head. I know its not fancy but it feels good but i want somethin new and different. I perfer it in the shower cause my fingers get tired quick doing with my fingers up there and on the clit. Thx for reading and i hope u can help! :)
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hi, i am a male, but i'll try my best to help. a girls answer would be best because they know exactly how their body works, inside the vagina has little sensitivity, so focusing on the clitoiris is probably the best idea.
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You are still young, and your feelings may only now be developing, so don't despair. Just keep at it. Try to be relaxed, so somewhere private where you won't get disturbed is best. Fingering is probably the best. But it is how you finger that is important. How do you use your fingers? It shouldn't be too tiring, so what do you actually do?
Do you get wet when masturbating? If so, use some of your natural lubrication from your vagina to lubricate your clit. If not, something like KY jelly is could be used. If you can't use that, perhaps Vaseline. Saliva can be effective also.
Concentrate on your clit. (How big is it? Some clits are very small, like a very small pea; others can be much larger. An idea of the size might help in giving advice.)
Use gentle but firm pressure, and start feeling all around it. Try massaging a nipple at the same time. Just enjoy the sensations, and find which part is most responsive. You may find that one side is more sensitive than the other. Go slow to start with, and let the feelings just happen. Get to know your body, and how it responds. Eventually the feeling will build. Maybe to an orgasm. But remember that many girls do not orgasm until older. Have you ever had an orgasm?
Just inside your vagina, on the anterior wall, not too far in, there is a place that may be quite sensitive - the g-spot. A finger or two rubbing in a 'come here' beckoning motion might help. But only do this if you are wet enough. then move out to your clit for a while. Then back inside. Just experiment, and enjoy the experience.
If you stick to manual stimulation, I think to progress to mutual masturbation later will be better, and is more likely, imho, to make adjusting to marriage easier and more fulfilling
Hope this helps.
If you think I can be of more help, please ask. Privately if you wish.
Do you get wet when masturbating? If so, use some of your natural lubrication from your vagina to lubricate your clit. If not, something like KY jelly is could be used. If you can't use that, perhaps Vaseline. Saliva can be effective also.
Concentrate on your clit. (How big is it? Some clits are very small, like a very small pea; others can be much larger. An idea of the size might help in giving advice.)
Use gentle but firm pressure, and start feeling all around it. Try massaging a nipple at the same time. Just enjoy the sensations, and find which part is most responsive. You may find that one side is more sensitive than the other. Go slow to start with, and let the feelings just happen. Get to know your body, and how it responds. Eventually the feeling will build. Maybe to an orgasm. But remember that many girls do not orgasm until older. Have you ever had an orgasm?
Just inside your vagina, on the anterior wall, not too far in, there is a place that may be quite sensitive - the g-spot. A finger or two rubbing in a 'come here' beckoning motion might help. But only do this if you are wet enough. then move out to your clit for a while. Then back inside. Just experiment, and enjoy the experience.
If you stick to manual stimulation, I think to progress to mutual masturbation later will be better, and is more likely, imho, to make adjusting to marriage easier and more fulfilling
Hope this helps.
If you think I can be of more help, please ask. Privately if you wish.
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Hey I'm 21 but I was your position a year ago so here's a tip from a pro. Do you have a cat? If yes, then u have one of those rolling things that remove the hair. Take those sheets off and and use the handle of that rolling thing to put inside. And wet it with warm water first... I used the same one all the time and just cleaned it. Its amazing u can thank me later
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u can use an electric toothbrush as a vibrator. put the opposite end of the toothbrush inside ur p***y and rub ur clit with the other hand.
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