how to stay in love with a bipolar person

Thnks forr responses im sorry I made a mistake because of auto speller, my girl has bpd, and is also a narcissistic disorder, I know shes being unfaithful, I just broke it off for good, and erased her from everywhere, your right nothing is worth all this toxic abuse, but I looked up her symptoms, and they say to be supportive , understanding,and kind to what they suffer from, and I did my best, but I cant be disrespected like this anymore, you can lead a horse to water.... you guys know how that goes she should've gotten help within our two years I think, thnks again

I know this guy who go with a girl who is bipolar, first me and him was just good friends since he is now in a relationship with her, he has changed he is not friendly as much and dont say much because of her she moved in a few doors down from me she dont even speck so i finally ask him what is wrong with her first he tried to use excuses, so now she was pregnant and she hd the baby, so before she had the baby he was on my steps talking to me she got crazy started yelling at him telling him to come here and then she slam the door and then came to the front door again and started yelling again so he finally told me she think i am staring at her when i come to my door he already told me she was bipolar but dont need medication, she donot like it when he is around me so it seem like she dont like a lot the neighors and othere are starting to notice it . it iscrazy now they have a newborn baby it make me wonder how will that work out he dont seem the same other people talk to him about her but he say nothing as if he agree with her so he speck to me and i leave it just like that. she always look mad all the time it just as though he doing just what she want him to do i dont even think she like being around his family as much but she love being around his she is a white female and they work toether on the job, he is not himself when she is around but when she is not around he act like himself. i dont think she care for his friends either

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If you truely care for her then you can handle her. But it doesn't mean she needs no treatment. Take haer to any good treatment center. Everything will be good.

Year 1: the most loving couple I've ever been a part of. The most rewarding relationship despite the difficulty. 

Year 2: Barely know I have a fiance anymore. Talk to her every day. Pretty much the same as when I first met her and before we were able to have a relationship. We  were just friends who crushed on each other but kept it to ourselves, but just talked every day. She's so distant and I dont get to see her much. 

She's in a low. She sees a Quack doctor about her Bipolar who is nothing but a drug pusher with a phd. No corresponding therapy to go with the medication. She can barely leave her  house. She cant hold a job because she is basically disfunctional. So she has state health insurance, and the doctor she's seeing seems to only want to get perks from giving the most medication. She cant come to see  me here in my house anymore which is the only place where she could come and be alone all weekend. (Its not about sex) although when we are actually alone we can actually focus on each other better. 

This is a very draining relationship. Its tough to keep going sometimes. But I love her very much. 

To the guy who says his girlfriends still has feelings for her ex? Bipolar or not, you have to have some self respect and not allow that to continue. (Cant do anything about the feelins, but I mean, she can make a choice. A relationship and its standards...and your standards..cant supercede whether or not you love  her, but having an EX that she  admits to having feelings about laying around with your lady...Thats wont end well. You have to tell her, no John Redcorn, and you cant be dale gribble. There has to be boundries regardless of her condition. If she is having guys over that she still has feelings for, you are asking for infidelity. And you have to realize that as much as you love this woman, there will be someone for you that wont do that to you....You can only sacrifice so much But only you know what works for you, this is just my opinion. Best of luck. 

I feel like I just read a book on my life.

I have been with my bipolar boyfriend for a year now. I do love him, but I have decided to break up with him. Unfortunately, I have to say that being with a bipolar person is impossible if you are a person that does not have serious issues. I ended up being depressed myself, to the point that I cry every single day and some times I cannot even function. After thinking about it, I realised that life is hard enough as it is. People have many problems and being bipolar on top of them is a hopeless case. I feel alone, unprotected and that noone cares for my feelings. Bipolar people are so self-involved that they cannot care about your feelings. And even if they want to care, they end up feeling powerless, helpless and depressed. Protect yourselves from all this, my friends. I read your comments and I empathise. For those of you who are not married and don't have kids with them, be brave and end the relationships. A person cannot love anyone if they can't love themselves. And bipolar people don't love themselves. They are not bad people. They are just unable to express love the normal way. Which might seem ok at first, when you are in love, but after the first couple of months, it's going to be 80% pain and 20% happiness. So just break up while it's still early. It might seem very painful now, but staying in the relationship will be a lot more painful in the long run.

You just described my relationship with my bipolar girlfriend. It makes me feel better that I'm not alone

I'm reading not for advice, but I'm slowly realising that I myself relate to many of these bipolar symptoms ... I want to remain with my boyfriend so much but its like my mind doesnt let me because i swing from completely in love to wanting to leave.. Any tips?

This is sooo weird for me because we all are experiencing the same issue in our relationship. My wife and I have been together for 6 years and she's bi polar. I love my wife dearly with all my soul. She has her good and bad days but it can get rough sometimes married to a bipolar individual. Yesterday she's all lovey dove and today she tells me she wants to live by herself. She claims I'm on a money paper case and I'm not. I'm just doing what's going to end up beneficial for us in the long run. Does T help either that she doesn't drive and I alway joke and say I'm her personal chauffeur for life and we argue about that.

I too fall in love with a bp girl. I got to know it on very first day. She is on med and had her last relapse couple of years back. We were together for 3 mths plus. Everything was beautiful in the beginning. We had our disagreement but everything was ok. Like what someone else mentioned you can be her superman one minute but the next moment she can break up with me. No matter how i talked to her is of no use. I tried calling her, messaging her, but she just do not want to answer or reply. I am very lost, not sure what to do. I do love her very much and i am still waiting (the wait is killing me). As much as i want to spend the rest of my life with her, i really doesnt know what to do now......

To be honest i am falling apart, i have done everything i can to contact her but yet she doesn't want to response. i am crushed into pieces and i really have to move on. Is really too painful to carry on waiting. I sincerely hope she is fine and be happy......

I felt exactly the same way. Just broke up with a guy I was dating. Suspected bipolar early on. He would comment how happy and personable I was all the time and how he admired that I had the ability to talk to just about anybody. By the end of the 4 months, I questioned my security with him. I felt on pins and needles all the time. Found him writing inappropriate texts to ex-lovers. He would be loving and affectionate one day and not call me all week the next. He would be caught in little lies and would play the victim card to get sympathy with his female friends. He did online dating for years to feed his sexual appetite and found out he was on practically 5 different sites when I met him. I couldn't take it anymore and left him. He refused to get help even though he suspected he may have been bipolar and is not on medication. Clear sign to me was when he had a week of hypomania, said he felt he was getting so much done and on top of the world and in an instance, his face went to a blank emotionless stare. It was scary to see these changes so quickly. I was willing to stand by his side but when I found the inappropriate messages to other women, condition or no condition, I could not allow that behavior to chip away my self-esteem. I had to leave.

Note: Drugs abuse is not the answer

I have a biploar girlfriend and I am too biploar, we met 4 months ago and got into a relationship rather fast and we knew pretty quick we are soul mates because we have the same past, same hobbies, same interests and same tastes! But the worse thing is the same disorders!!! We both have it and our relationship is a bumpy ride, when we are together in person, she is the most loving person and I am the most loving person but when we go our ways and she goes home, we instantly argue (partly my fault because I can't stand not being with her because she makes me so happy and completes me in ways people can't imagine) so she gets mad at me getting mad due to the fact I always get mad because she's gone! But beside the point, she can say stuff like "you've ruined my life" "you've ruined everything for me, don't want to be with you anymore" I have told her many times it's my disorder why I get so mad at her at times but she never says "sorry it was my biploar" and the next day we are completely fine with each other .

My advice is to people who go though the same thing is, understand why you both always argue and say the horrible things she says and try avoid that as much as possible, it will be VERY hard to get a biploar girl the same again if she's going manic, so NEVER EVER think "this is the end of our relationship" because it's only a short fuse and the next day she will be fine! Try make her feel loved and happy! Never ever tell her horrible stuff because she's doing it to you because things will get very hectic.

I am going on medications for my biploar as I've only recently got it though a very hard life and need help with my head as my temper changes instantly! I hope people are able to control the disorder with there girlfriends! Let's just hope I can control mine;)