how to stay in love with a bipolar person

Worried Partner over a year ago

Very difficult. When she is in good mood, she will tell you are the best in the world and most sexiest person in the world and in 6 or 8 hours the mood will turn ...and she gets mad at smallest thing..and she turn into really a devil. I really mean this, he face becomes like that of some possessed girl . Her face becomes so much like wild animal and she fights and threatens that makes me scared and cry many times. I am scared even to leave her that in her angry mood she would harm me as she has threatened me in past. At the same time I also pity her thinking if I leave her whats going to happen to her.

I have got her see the doctor recently and doctor has started medicine. I hope it brings change in the situation that we both can safely get out of relationship

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Guest over a year ago

Oh my gosh? Everyone knows that its not the size of your boat but the motion in the ocean. No but seriously set boundaries. If the ex situation is bothering you then speak up and tell her. Respect is huge in a relationship. Trust is the other important thing. There are other fish in the sea buddy and most of them are good people like you wanting the same thing that you do. If you don't like what's going on move along. Life is short. Your girl shouldn't make you question her loyalty.

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Guest over a year ago

My gf of 2 years I think is bipolar. She lost her 17 y/o son in accident. Not sure if she was this way before [mood swings], but maybe it increased or really showed it's ugly face.
2-3 weeks she will act so loving and want a commitment, but within no time she has nothing to do with me. I'll reach out, but she will tell me to stay away or say something to keep me from getting close. Just becomes very distant and quite. Her highs are like the best. I feel like I'm the husband in the movie the "notebook". I wait and try to help or be there, which depresses me but then in a blink of an eye she comes around and wants me for everything as she. In those moments she has her mania she is everything. It's weird, but I've grown accustomed to waiting for her high just like in the movie the "notebook".

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Guest over a year ago

after 3 months my girl says she doesn't have emotional feeling for me.....im dying inside because I love her......she takes medication for bi-polar.......I cant fn understand whats going on...........how anyone can get so cold out of the blue

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Guest over a year ago

My husband has been told he may be bipolar. Has been going through a lot of depression and stuff. This is the 3 rd time he has flipped his lid and started destroying things. This is not him. Not the person I married and loved. He takes everything out in my daughter and I and I don’t know what I can do. He tells me to leave but I’m the one who pays the bills so why should I lose my house and animals because of him. This is so very hard and I feel for all of you.

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Guest over a year ago

Dude it is a never ending story and the cycle of the mood swing would be there forever, the only thing you can do to stay with this woman is to learn about things she likes to enjoy, learn her behavior and avoid things those trigger her behavior. This is also a seasonal disorder, you might enjoy great sex and affection but after a little while you would face rejection.

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Guest over a year ago

I identify with your post and it is so very similar to what I am going through right now (actually she has broken up with me for no reason) so I am hurting, this was posted over a year ago are you still with this girl?

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Guest over a year ago

where to start 4 years now and found out about 2and a half yrs ago and we have done nothing but fight everyday but neither of us really discussed it or looked into it last month she decided to just move out out of nowhere i want to be alone i had been reading about it anfd told her you really shouldnt be alone i was wrong of course well its been the most screwed up month of my life .i dont even know where she lives and she doesnt answer a text a call unless she really feels like it sh*t im blocked half the time she came over last night had dinner and it was like she was normal gonna come stay the night tonight havent heard a f*****g word from her im so dam pissed i i really dont know what to say the being alone is putting her deeper to be around anyone you know i called text so what are you to think she ended it or what the hell im s strong person mentaly but sh*t this is out of this world and i love the sh*t out od her

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Guest over a year ago

If you aren't in therapy and medication, please start. It sounds like you are very self-aware and this will greatly help you in your life and relationship.

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