Hi I’m 13. Try putting your phone on vibrate and holding it to your clit (look up a diagram if you’re confused). I started masturbating when I was around your age and it can be kinda confusing. If it hurts, then this usually means it’s working. But if it doesn’t feel good then of course you can just stop. I also find using some sort of lube or similar can help. If you don’t have access to anything similar, try vaseline or conditioner (this is what I use usually). I would normally suggest porn as the obvious choice for turning you on but I understand sometimes it is difficult to have access to it (I try to avoid watching it often as I don’t want to be found out haha). Becoming turned on depends on your sexuality really. If you’re into girls, I can recommend some Beyoncé music videos (such as partition), which are available on YouTube. You could always also go on archive of our own or some other website with a large amount of erotic fiction. Otherwise, just find a picture of someone you’re attracted to and just start rubbing the area around your clit through your underwear in circles, which should help to turn you on. When you think you are ready, begin to use your other hand to explore the rest of your body. I can recommend running your hands slowly across you thighs, breasts and the area between your v****a and a**ehole, which always helps to turn me on. Then, slowly run your finger over your v****a, but do not put it inside. Make sure you continue to rub circles around your clit area. When you think you are ready, you may decide to fully pull down your underwear, but this is not important. Eventually, enter something into you p***y slowly. This could either be a finger or small object, making sure it isn’t too big if this is one of your first times. If you feel it would be helpful, and if you’re comfortable doing so, use some lube or previously-mentioned substance to enter the object in. Begin to pull it in and out, slowly at first, gradually getting faster and harder as you see fit. If it doesn’t feel good straight away then be patient, it will soon. Make sure to keep brushing against your clit. If you are using fingers, then add a second finger when you feel comfortable and make scissoring motions inside your p***y, as this feels very good. Add in more fingers when you see fit. You may have an orgasm, but don’t worry if you don’t as a lot of people don’t always reach orgasm when they masturbate, let alone come (although if you do it feels great). An important thing to remember as a mindset for masturbation (nice alliteration there) is not to see orgasm as something you should be able to, or have to achieve. If you do, then great. But if you don’t, then never mind. If you need guidance on what to put in your p***y, then I suggest a pen or pencil or a small lipgloss container. If you have access to an electric toothbrush or pulsating shower head these can feel great. Obviously, sex toys work as well but many people like me do not have access to one.
Wow that took ages and writing it kinda turned me on haha. Anyways, have fun and don’t use anything that could potentially harm you. Not only can this be dangerously harmful and painful, it also makes a hell of an awkward conversation with a doctor, or you guardians. So in order to avoid some unpleasant conversations, I advise you to stay safe! Have fun xx
⬆️Was that a weird thing to say haha
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How do i arouse my self,if i cant find any websites for porn and dont really no how to finger myself?(i know absolutley nothing)
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