I want a baby, but my husband "isnt ready"

Hi guys. I know this was a year ago so I'm really hoping that you got to where you wanted to be. I'm in your situation now and struggling. All of my close friends are pregnant. I'm 30. He says I should be happy for them and stop making it about myself. I can't bear to be around him anymore. Sick of my in laws making me feel bad about why I am not pregnant yet.

Well, it is your body, get pregant and give a f**k for him, if he ends with you only because you got a baby, that means he never loved you, so anyway you will be a mother in the end, just stop take your pills and said something went wrong and that's it, i also tired of my husband give a time limit, he thinks he is god? he thinks that it is his choice? she will get pregant when i feel like i want to be a father? no, no, no show to him that u do whatever do u want because you are your own master.

Hi everyone. My fiancé is 29 and I am 25. My fiancé wants to wait to have kids till we are married but are circumstances are slightly different. Before I met him I thought I will never find the right person and always new I wanted to be a mom. I even have a child from a previous marriage which is why I was okay with not looking for anyone. I originally wanted to just get a donor, focus on me and my school ( finishing up masters then do PhD) and not worry abouT a male. Selfish I know especially after my first relationship. But then two months before my doctors appt For a donor I met this incredible man that’s amazing all round but he wants to wait. He says he’s not ready. We are currently engaged but our wedding keeps getting pushed back do to financial stability and more importantly time. The thing is is that we both make 50k or more and in about a year he should make way more than that since he is finishing up his fellowship in sports medicine. He even negotstied to try me to March of 2019 which is 3 months before the wedding. But for some reason I ache every day and I burst into complete depression one night because I feel that everything is going his way as if his career is more important. Also, that he considers himself not stable until he is making a ton of money. The conversation of children just seems to bring me to tears and I don’t know what to do. I can’t even see my friends pregnant or baby pictures because I will burst into tears. Even just thinking about it makes my heart ache. I am currently just hurting and in complete sadness. He is willing to see a therapist with me but I don’t want to and I am resenting him for not giving this to me now. If I wait till he wants a baby
Or is willing to do try which is March 2019 I would have waited over 2 years for when I am truly ready to have a baby. I’m getting depressed and starting to feel like my wants don’t matter. What do I do? Any advice?

Valerie Mondesir Alarcon. I really, really want a baby

Valerie Mondesir Alarcon. Yes! I really, really want a baby

Valerie Mondesir Alarcon. I really, really want a baby

Woah! It seems that your desperate for a baby to...I've just turned 35, I have 2 daughter's from my previous relationship &my husband has a autistic son from previous marriage. My heart aches for a baby with him but he refuses

I am right there with you. I am 29 and my husband is 32, we have been married for 5 years. I have wanted a baby for at least 2 years now. Everytime the conversation comes up he says this is the next generation we are talking about so we have to be at peak health. Every couple of months we get blood tests done and talk to doctors even though both of us have no concerning issues and have been given the go ahead. His solution to avoiding accidentally conceiving and "unhealthy baby" as he calls it is so not have sex at all. I am resenting him more and more for this by the day. It is so frustrating because before we got married we had a great sex life, somehow ever since the possibility of having a baby and that being everyone's expectations has turned into reality, he has been acting this way. He reads about pregnancy, how to take care of me, the baby, he can give talks for hours if needed about how to care for an infant. Just the timing to have one doesn't seem to be ever right and I am feeling so alone and helpless. I used to confide in my mother and she passed away recently so I am lost!! Sorry! This may not be helpful. Just sharing that you are not alone in this.