I'm a 14 year old (soon to be 15) female virigin and I get turned on quite a lot but I've never masturbated because I have no idea what to do! Like I understand things like rubbing my clit and fingering but I don't know exactly what to do. I tried fingering while i was showering once but it hurt a bit so I figured I was doing it wrong. What is the right way to do it and how do you find exactly where your vagina hole is? I've also (obviously) never experienced an orgasm so what is that like? Also, it would ber very helpful if I could get some techniques to achieve orgasms more smoothly. (Btw I don't have a shower head or an electric toothbrush) Also, when would be a good time to masturbate without being interrupted? ALSO, how do you know if you have achieved an orgasm? please no pervs, just girls would be nice. Thank you! :)
Okay, well the easiest way is to rub your vagina softly and slowly (at first) with your hands. Then, as it goes on, you can start to speed up and rub faster and faster. To achieve an orgasm faster and to make it feel better, try watching lesbian porn while you masturbate-that always works for me. A good place to do it without being interrupted is in the bath tub-not shower-or in your bed. An orgasm feels like a shivery feeling going up and down your body. It feels so, so, good. Just remember that masturbating is completely a self pleasure and should be very enjoyable. Hope this helps! :)
It's kind of perverted that you just told a 15 year old girl to take her virginity.
Go to AllExperts.com and send a question to David Carney in the category of Masturbation. He really helped me a lot!
u can start by rubbing your clit and vaginal area and then u can insert something into ur vagina like the end or a hairbrush or toothbrush or the best would be ur fingers.....this should get u started
>> Humping/Rubbing: My bathroom sink has rounded corners, so what I do is leave my underwear on and rub my clit over the corner with a humping motion of my hips. This sounds painful and uncomfortable, but it actually feels really good and does a great job to get my aroused. Also, thought I've never tried this, you can hump a pillow or anything you can find that stimulate your clit well. When humping objects, it's best to keep your underwear on, but it is your choice and what works best for you.
>> Detachable Shower Head: If you have a detachable shower head, use that to stimulate your clit and/or vagina. Use warm water and turn the power to medium, use your fingers to spread the lips from over your clit, and let the water pulse on your clit.
>> UNdetachable Shower Head: You can still use the shower to masturbate. Lay on your shower/bath floor, use the "diamond" position or "knees up" position I described in the first paragraph. Spread the lips from over your clit and let the water hit your clit. Make sure the power is medium, or higher according to your likings. I do this almost every night, and brings me to orgasm every time. You just have to find where the shower water hits at the best angle on your clit.
>> These are all the techniques I use! Of course, you can always use a vibrator or a makeshift vibrator (e.g. electric toothbrush), but I don't have access to a vibrator and I can't use the toothbrush because it's too noisy and blatant.
>> Also, if you couldn't tell, I dislike vaginal penetrating masturbation, so if you're looking for advice about that, you're looking at the wrong place :)