What about the half who stayed naked? Did they have erections? My recollections of naturist beaches are that only few of the boys stayed naked during puberty, most put swimming trunks and shorts on, and those who stayed naked had only very rarely an erection. My brother for example had an early puberty so when his body changed he was still young enough not to bother about it and by the time he would normally have felt ashamed he was already half-way through it. He never had an erection-issue and so he never dressed.
Hi. I have already written here. For me and my brother the question whether we should get dressed on the nudist beach never came to mind. I suppose my parents would have let us but my brother was at ease with his erection and when it was my turn I just followed his example. It was not so much the erection itself than the process of my penis getting hard which I was ashamed of. Usually my erections didnt last long but there could be several in a row with my penis hard every 10 minutes or so which was embarrassing. I would have prefered to get an erection and keep it like my brother instead of this up and down. My erections were very irregular, there were days where nothing happened for hours and other days where my penis got hard 10 times or more in one morning. I believe you should ask your kid to try to stay naked. There will certainly be others and he'll end up finding it normal. Which it is!
Hi. I'm 24 and still get the odd hard-on from time to time but things have calmed down. Before puberty I remember having had erections but they were of course rare and seemed like fun to me. When I was 13 things got more serious and I became gradually self-conscious about it. My first embarrassing erection was in the changing rooms when I was 14. I needed to get changed into swimming trunks and I was hard. So everyone saw me hard and afterwards of course my erection was visible in the swimming trunks. I felt ashamed but nobody said anything about it. Over the months I learned to dress differently in order to hide my erections as well as possible: no more loose trousers, no more boxer shorts etc. When I was 15 I have the impression I was hard half the time, not always rock hard but more or less semi-hard. But I had also full erections and they were very painful to have in the tight pants I had started to wear. When fully erect my penis is curved at 1/3 of its length and the longer part of it points upwards, not completely vertically but nearly. So I had to go for the looser outfits again and accept to show the bulge of my erection. By that time some girls started to tell me they found it supercool and two asked me even to undress for them and to show them my erect penis. I became very close with one of them and when we went for a walk in the forest I started to open my fly and to let my penis stand out in the open. She liked very much to see me like this. Of course when we came across people I covered it up quickly. But one day we came across two other girls from our class. I was trying to cover up in a hurry but she had the feeling that they had already noticed and asked me to stay just the way I was. I was fully erect with the shaft of my penis standing against my trousers. They were very surprised and shocked but giggled at the same time and were also full of a kind of admiration which I hadn't suspected. One tried to make a funny remark but it didn't feel right. The other told us outright that she found it beautiful. We talked about it for a while then they went their way. When they had left my girlfriend and I kissed deeply and she caressed me and I came immediately. Having been naked like that in front of other people had been a very strong experience for me and one which I tried to relive. The next day in school we arranged for another walk all 4 of us.
so whats the piont? you became exhibitionist is that it ?
There's a boy in my class who is hard and who cant hide it. I find it cute!
Only thing which worked for me at the time was very tight underwear and jeans with a lot of stuff (keys, hankies etc.) in both pockets so that there were bulges anyway. My erections most of the times allowed me still to put my penis on the right or on the left side so it really blended in with the stuff in my pockets. This doesnt mean that nobody knew. Of course the other guys knew about my condition becayse they saw me naked in the changing rooms. And once a girl asked me outright if all the bulges were only from the things in my pocket. I thought about my answer for a moment and then said no and emptied my pockets. For another moment sh said nothing then started to caress me through the jeans. She asked me a lot of questions, how often I was hard, how big it was, which angle it stood at. I also learned from her that the girls had guessed that I was actually trying to hide erections. She never asked me to undress and after that one time she never approached me in this way another time.
from a girl's point of view: just don't be ashamed, don't show it off but don't be ashamed!
of course one notices an erection beneath the clothes but it's less "overpresent" than you'd think, even in boxer shorts!! when my brother had his erection period he had to stop wearing briefs because when his penis was completely hard and he couldn't bend it sideways it just came out. so he started wearing shorts. of course this meant he sported a tent but his penis stayed fairly close to his belly so it wasn't all that obvious and you forgot about it, even on the beach.
of course one notices an erection beneath the clothes but it's less "overpresent" than you'd think, even in boxer shorts!! when my brother had his erection period he had to stop wearing briefs because when his penis was completely hard and he couldn't bend it sideways it just came out. so he started wearing shorts. of course this meant he sported a tent but his penis stayed fairly close to his belly so it wasn't all that obvious and you forgot about it, even on the beach.
I'm 19 I still get hard for no reson. I tride to hide my erection but 2 years ago my friends dard me and another one to go commando for one day. He acepted so I too. i was hard even more offen that day but it was liberating. My friend was very much ashamed but I let my penis be.
Yes that's one of the paradoxes isnt't it? My elder brother hid his erections behind briefs and he had no problem staying inside lol but of course also like that you noticed his penis was longer and bigger. My younger brother wears shorts. In a way, with baggy pants, his erections are less obvious. When he's half hard it's as if he had something in his pocket and if he's fully hard it's not worse than in briefs. The only problem is the transition between the two situations but even then he manages to put it sideways and to let it grow.
Hi. Back from our holidays. Thanks for the advice I got here. We took our son, but allowed him to stay dressed. He wouldn't have had it any other way anyway. Of course this time all of us paid attention to adolescents and to who stayed dressed and so we noticed that indeed a certain number, maybe a third, stayed dressed, especially among the boys. This still left a vast majority undressed, but only a few of them had an erection so we took it that those dressed were precisely those with the same problem our son had to face. We also noticed that those dressed were generally a little older than our boy and among those who stayed naked, the ones with an erection were in general the younger ones. (There was only 1 boy who was 16 or 17 and who was hard nearly every time we saw him.) So it came that our son made friends with other boys who were his age or younger, all of which stayed naked even though they had occasionally at least a partial erection and 2 of them got actually hard quite easily. So on morning of the 3. day we were very surprised and very glad to see our son coming out of the bathroom naked and joining his friends like that. He had no erection at that precise moment, but later that day he had several. In the evening we tried to tell him how brave we thought he behaved but he didn't want to talk about it. So we don't know whether he will want to get dressed again next year or not, but anyway this seems to have been an important 1. step to self-acceptance already.
That's also my own experience: others help a lot. We used to go to a naturist location also. When I started to have erections I was still young enough not to be bothered by them. (I had my foreskin removed when I was 9 because doctor said it was too tight and from then on I've had a very tender glans. So I was often erect when I undressed but of course my penis was still small and also the erection vanished quickly. I entered puberty when I was 11 and my erections became more frequent but it was still nothing much and I didn't feel any shame. But when I was 12-13 I became very self conscious about my erections and wanted to stay dressed that summer. But then I was the only one dressed and there was another boy who had also erections even if not as often as I did and there was a general agreement among the others that erections were cool so I undressed again even on the 1. day. Every year the temptation was still there to get dressed (and every year I strated dressed but ended up naked with my erection. When I was 15, in the group I had joined that year there were a surprising number of boys my age and older staying dressed, also because there were for the 1. time girls in the group. I wanted to do for the others what others had done for me and show that there was no reason to be ashamed, so I undressed for lunch and joined them in the afternoon naked. The girls were very surprised, 1 felt even vaguely uneasy about my erection and only one of the boys followed my example. But it was very liberating even so to be able not to hide it and even to speak about it openly
My friend has a penis which is often erect. He tried to hide it but I like to see it. So now when we go out he accepts to go commando. It's superhot! I talk about it with my sister who finds it superhot too. I'd like him to undress completely in front of her but so far he refused. Seeing him like that arouses me completely. It's so hot not to be able to hide a condition like that and in general to let other people notice your gentials. For even when he's not completely hard you see his penis moving beneath his trousers. I offered him a pair of large light coloured linen trousers which are perfect. I would like to be able to do a thing like that. I don't wear a bra in order to have my nipples showing and sometimes I wear very tight hotpants which show the form of my labia and where you can see when I get wet but it's not the same I think. You guys are so lucky!
Never felt lucky that way, sorry. I had a somewhat late puberty, starting only when I was 14. My first erections arrived when I entered 10. grade. At the beginning they didn't last for long but after a few months they became very frequent, usually up to 10-15 a day (once my brother counted them because I had started with 4 in a row in the morning and he counted 22 that day), and then my penis got less flaccid between 2 erections but stayed more or less swollen and protruding and finally my erections lasted for longer. Since I'm 17 I have an average of 7-8 erections a day which last for 10-20 minutes and my penis stays semi-hard in between. Most nights I have wet dreams and if I don't for a couple of days I usually ejaculate spontanously during the day. I feel ashamd for all of this. For a long time I was made fun of because I was the only one without pubic hair and then it was because I was the only one to still have erections like an adolescent and because of my ejaculations (now I have learned to feel when they come but at the beginning I wasn't able to hide all of them).
How old r y now? How could your bro see all of your erections? Where did you ejaculae in public? I'm 19 and Ive often erections too but Ive never had ejaculation in public. did you really orgasm like when you masturbat? do you masturabate? I often do. maybe thats why I dont ajaculate like you. onec I masturbated to my sister. how did the others react?
I'm 22. So this lasts for 5 years now. I had been told it would get better after puberty but so far there is no change. Funny story you masturbating to your sister. I suppose she asked for it? I have 2 brothers and a sister, but my sister is older. She used to be the one concerned about my condition, when puberty was late and also when I developed this erection problem. She was the one telling me to masturbate in order to get rid of it but this only diminishes the risk of ejaculations not the number of erections. Now when I wake up without having had a wet dream I masturbate in the morning or I wear a condom for the day. When my ejaculations started my penis didn't stay semi-hard all day so I didn't try the condom and I had 2 layers of underwear. Most of the time I ejaculate when dressed. But also ejaculated on the beach in my swimmingtrunks, once in the changingroom at school when undressed, and also once when playing strip-poker wearing only boxershorts but there I was aroused. Usually it's not like an orgasm, no, I don't feel aroused when it happens. Sometimes even the semen only flows, but most of the times it squirts like when I have an orgasm. My family also witnessed a lot of my ejaculations of course. And when I was 19 I spent 6 months in Europe and I stayed with a family and I shared a room with their son and he witnessed of course the results of my wet dreams and also some of my other ejaculations. I had a lot there because I couldn't masturbate in the morning because he was there. And my brother saw my erections because it were holidays I was naked in the morning and later we spent all day on the beach so my erections were visible in my swimmingtrunks. He was 14 at the time dealing with his own puberty but he had only like 3 or 4 erections a day.