Most woman that want surgery to remove there large labia minora do not realise the risks involved from infection to total loss of sensation and even ending up with a totally misshapen vaginal because the surgery went wrong.
If any of you do think of having surgery then make sure you do a lot of research first not just on the operation but also the after effects and on the surgeon doing it and also from people that's had it done, big is beautiful :)
Well, well, well, if it isn't an ignorant man who thinks his preference dictates THE standard for all mankind to follow. Excuse me, but there IS such a thing as labia (minora) that are too large. That porn star you mentioned doesn't even have big lips! She has a hooded clitoris! Learn the difference! Have you ever felt pain while walking because the way your large lips rubbed together felt like friggin sandpaper? Have you experienced them falling out of your underwear? Have you felt enough discomfort that exercising becomes too difficult?? Yea, you can have an opinion when you have (big) lips, son! And you know what I did? I reduced them. And life has been GREAT. Sex doesn't hurt. I can actually achieve my fitness goals now. I can wear thongs! It's not all about what men like. Honestly.
Original poster - who cares what men think? As long as YOU like what you have, that is all that matters. If your lips make normal activities uncomfortable (walking/running, hygiene problems, etc), then change it. But if it doesn't and all you're worrying about is what men like, don't change anything. Make yourself your priority and you will find someone who loves all of you.
I don't know how the f**k I'm here but I guess as a male i would like to reply. I fantasizes constantly about woman with a big outer labia so I will not stand for a gf without one.