Men...what is better to you? Large or small labia?

I have posted here previously that I really like larger labia. I do, but the previous poster made me also want to say that although I do prefer larger ones, I have never seen one I didn't really like. One of the guys in the article said that he's just happy to be there is so true for me. A woman's vagina is about the most private thing that anyone can ever share with someone. I always consider it an honor for her to share it with me which is why they turn me on so much. I have actually ejaculated once just from the excitement of LOOKING at a vagina up close. While of course there is some line where they are truly too big, a wild guess would be it has to be somewhere around less than 5% that are too big. I've seen dozens of them and if I have never seen one that I would have considered too big, then those odds are there are very few that are. There is a comment in the article, “I’d much prefer that she is comfortable with herself versus being neurotically insecure enough to get surgery.” is very important. I totally agree with this. The young girl in the documentary that gets the surgery because she is teased by people comes to mind. First, she said she was teased by men, but I don't get the impression that any of them have actually seen it! These guys are all a$$holes, and I guarantee that if this girl was to allow one of these guys to have sex with her they would feel so lucky to even be with her that they would never tease her again. In my mind, as much as they might say they feel sorry for a woman with large labia, they probably feel much more sorry for a woman that would be so self-conscious to get get invasive and expensive surgery done. I myself would shy away from a woman like that because I'd be wondering what part of herself is she going to dislike next? Is she going to have a facelift next? Tummy tuck? Breast augmentation? Is she going to end up looking plastic like the women on those Real Housewives shows? I prefer confident woman that are secure with themselves far more than women with "perfect" bodies (whatever that is).

LARGE mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm deffinatly the best

You need to stop voicing your insecurities and start voicing the opposite.  Men aren't going to find you attractive sexually if you have all of these hang-ups regarding your bodies.  Ladies, get comfortable in yourselves.. most real men like you, just as you are.

 

T

I agree 150%. This is a great post.

Thanks,
Tim

Definitely LONG, with meaty lips that protrude as far as possible. Beaytiful lips have a wrinkly texture when not pulled.

I love women with large long labia,they are sexy and give more

It is immaterial to me as a man whether a woman has large or small labia,  I get enjoyment out of both and as long as the woman I am with  enjoys oral sex and caressing with my fingers as far as I am concerned that is all that counts.

I would never say to a woman your labia are large or small as I believe what ever the size they give enjoyment to both parties

as I have been hearing about this on the news and some daytime talk shows. I wondered how many women actually were thinking about having this surgery done. to be honest I think it's absurd to have a surgery in which you would lose any feeling down there. besides I think it's sexy and do prefer a woman with some thing more in that way

you know I think women in general think their bodies are not as beautiful as they could be with a few alterations, that could be true in some cases I'm sure but I think that many of you are more beautiful than you think. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, beauty is more in the heart than the physical body. Fat is not attractive on any body women or men. And everyone gets old. We need to be more concerned about what is on the inside. I remember having a girl friend that was flatter chested than me, but she made everything count that she had. She had a wonderful heart and you can't alter that with surgery (thank goodness). I like smaller breasts and large libias look interesting. But you know I think it would be best not to change anything about ones physical being until you meet the person you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. At that time maybe you could ask the one that loves you if there are any changes they would like you to make (the whole person just the way you are). I bet a true lover wouldn't want any change, a change in which you are speaking of maybe one thing they love about you. I like natural, good hygiene and a love for our Lord. Love yourself so you can love others, but don't be self-centered. Sexy is you to the person that wants to be with you for ever. The lord made you for them how do you know all the little things they like about you, don't make changes that are permeant; you maybe very sorry later.   Dave

i,ve got a massive clit and labia,i was going to get rid , but have decided its there to protect my p***y ..keeps it extra juicy too..and i havent got a boring average p***y, i am rare..alot of men wont get the chance to have the opportunity to be near one like ours in their life!!!, if your man doesnt like it theres billions that would love the chance to experience it and keep it for themselves. my sons dad told his mates it was the sweetest ever, its kinda ugly in my opinion..but i,m gonna keep it!!x

I am one of the billions!!! Would love to spend some time with your p****y

girl he only told his friends that because he was bummed he couldnt get in your vagina anymore! Ive always been insecure about mine but my man always tells me how sexy it looks which has really brought up my self esteem in that area! The bottom line: only a little kid (16 year old) will think its gross, because they are stupid dumb kids! and half the time they only say mean things about your body because they are trying to cover up the fact that they are insecure about themselves!!!

Ok so obvi men like big labia, which is amazing because it seemed like the opposite. But what about a woman who has one big one and one small one? Is that weird? or just best of both worlds? MEN please let me know!

The stigma that some men on this post are attaching to large labia is deeply frustrating me. They seem to think large labia are indicative of "whoring around" and frequent madturbation. This is not the case. Mine have been large since I was young, I've only had one partner and I've never masturbated. So there you go. Case closed.

Having followed this thread since the beginning, I don't recall if anyone in it ever suggested that large labia are associated with whoring around and frequent masturbation? I would say that, if anything, men are associating large labia with the ability to give a woman pleasure.

And there is nothing wrong with frequent masturbation. It's normal and healthy, although not doing it is ok too.