Men...what is better to you? Large or small labia?

I'm a virgin and that's how I am.
I think it's a deformity o-O

ok, so I am a teenager, and have just finished my senior year of high school. I have only had sex a few times, but am nervous for my new sexual life, now that my boyfriend and I have decided not to go long distance. I am thinking about getting them reduced, but probably will not. I noticed that my labia got really big when I was almost twelve. I had been wearing to small underwear, and super tiny shorts and the tightest, barely zip able , skinny jeans. I haven't looked up what causes enlarged labia, but my friends suspect it was my need to act like s***. lol. watevs. don't do it tho! it gives u waaaaaaay more discharge, and is hard to clean, though pays off when having sex.

Ladies one thing you all need to understand love who you are, all your pussies are beautiful men love you, you just need to show your love and confindence about yourself, I personally love a woman who is relaxed and fun loving and damn your p***y what ever way will be perfect, God created you all beautiful miles better than us men, have a healthy happy mind and body and you will be well adored by your man love you all

i have a large inner labia and do guys really like it? i mean it looks gross to me... guys my age (17) seem to like it small and not a large inner labia.. so it makes it very awkward, i have had sex... but im not sexually active and i just feel like i disappointed him with it or something...

I have no inner labia, but I never have. I was born that way. I wasn't with very many guys before I got married, but my few boyfriends & my husband never said anything bad. All I ever heard about down there from a guy was "cute". So, I assume most guys would feel the same.

Ladies, whether you have small or large labia.......you're all goddesses.....I personally like larger labia lips, something more to kiss and suck on... ;-)

Leave it alone.  The bigger the better!

I've been insecure about my long labia since I was seven years old (the first time I actually realized they were there). I tried to cut them off with a pair of siscors when I was eight (the things we do out of insecurity) But it hurt so badly I had to stop just millimeters in. I certainly hadn't "been around" at the age of seven. I remember the first time I heard the term "meat hangers". I was in highschool and I was on my way to lunch with a group of co-workers. There were four guys, a chick and myself. This chick starts going on about the roast beef on a guy's sandwich and how she can't eat it because it looks like meat hangers. I started to get uncomfortable and insecure feeling. Then she goes on to say that meat hangers happen because a p***y gets screwed so much that the skin becomes loose and sags. The guys (all in their mid-late twenties) completely believed her and said some repulsive stuff. I wanted to speak up from the back of the car and inform her on how very wrong she was. It's all genetic. But my eyes were watering and my mouth was trembling and I had to bite my lip just to keep from bursting out in tears. so I couldn't say anything. Thankfully, no one looked my way. I have heard similar things since then and it hurts every time. I am extremely tight inside. My boyfriend is a good average size and he fits in soooo tight he has to really push to get in sometimes even when I'm soaked wet. He can last a while, but on my "tighter days" he can barely last at all. I do kegals whenever I'm in the car or sitting at home or in class so I am most deffinately not loose or worn out. Yet, I have think purple labia that hang down between my lips and, because of the awful things I hear about that, it's so hard to feel secure. Please, do educate yourself and be mindful of what you say to women. it's one of our biggest insecurities and there is absolutely nothing (short of cutting them off) that we can do about it.

any man who loves you won't care about the size of your lips, personally I prefure natural women not man made fakes

I love large meaty labia, i think they are beautiful i love large clit also.....

My outer lips are small but my inner lips are a little bit big I think, they are about half an inch but they don't hang down. My p***y is bald so I don't hide my lips, but when a guy goes down on me I am a little conscious he doesn't like it and that they should be smaller, even though I always find oral sex really good. Also I have a big bum and the guys who go from behind have told me they like my big bum, but I'm still not convinced, is bigger better?

Why do you feel that way?
Guys tell you they like your pretty bald p***y and your butt and you feel they must be lying?

Why not enjoy yourself instead?

I don't know what it's like for other guys but I like a bit of flesh. I prefer it to the smooth sort of look.

Regardless, if I loved someone it would be part of them and I would love it. I'd rather be in a loving relationship, huge massive flaps or no flaps.

Large definatly.  I find there is nothing sexier than a woman with a large Labia.

I prefer small ones. Big labias look ugly to me. They look like tentacles and not youthful.  I mean it is an age old fact that men like youthful women.