Men...what is better to you? Large or small labia?

Small or invisible turns me on for sure at least, dont worry:)

I love it large because when you open it up it looks like a beautiful pink flower. 

I was so foolish at 18.  When I first saw my girlfriend's labia minora I blurted out "is that normal?"  I didn't even think how insecure she might be about it, I still regret it to this day.  Years later I realize there is nothing more amazing than a big inner labia.  First of all, it makes GIVING oral sex way more interesting because you have things you can play with.  Secondly, generally they come with bigger clitorises which makes giving oral sex way easier.  Thirdly, OMG they are so awesome to look at!  Guess that's dirty or something, but I'm a straight guy, so I guess it's normal to like vaginas.Anyway, give your guys a chance if he's naive in the way of sex and he lets a comment slip, he probably just isn't used to it.  I'm sure most guys aren't as "loose lipped" as I am, but let it slide for my sake if you meet a boy as dumb as me.  He'll learn quick how awesome your huge inner labia is.  If any woman I was dating was thinking of having a labiaplasty I would promise to dump her/divorce her if she did it.  There is nothing more beautiful than you ladies with huge labia minora!  And you are definitely a million times more fun to lick!Be proud, some guy is going to have a blast when he realizes how boring small inner lips are!

I prefer a wonderful full lipped vulva, big clit is good too.  More to play with, makes oral so much better and the feeling of the extra skin around your penis is awesome.

Ladies, do not believe all the hype about labiaplasty - google some of the horror stories before just jumping in.

THANK YOU, THANK YOU :-D, to all the men that like large labia.  it makes me very happy

Exactly... " porn " lol

I find large labia very attractive. They lubricate better and are fun to play with. Women with big labia are unique.

When dating and the woman has small labia that is it. Game over. It is a total turn-off. Sorry 

It would be heaven to be with a guy that likes larger labia, My guy doesn't really like them, He thinks they get in the way during oral. It kinda makes me sad because I would enjoy sex a hell of a lot more with a guy that appreciates them and it would be a huge turn on. I kinda think they're not that attractive, Maybe because of porn, But they are very sensitive and I'm sure are more pleasurable.

I've always preferred large labia.  It feels great during intercourse or when I eat her out.

 

i just gotta say- this thread is absolutely wonderful! i am 31 and also have bigger labia. i remember so clearly when it happened, it seemed to be overnight! i really thought there was something wrong with me. like another girl on here, i also had a friend(that had just a tiny little slit between her legs) make a comment and said mine looked like a grandmothers vagina!! that was before i had ever been with a guy, so i was so insanely self conscious. not one man has ever once not enjoyed my naughty bits, and no, they have not grown the more i have had sex! many guys have commented on how tight i am. the whole notion of the bigger the labia the more sex a girl has had is just ridiculous! i definitely agree with the others people on here that have said these things should be taught in sex ed. penis size and shape should be talked about too! they hold up a diagram of a vagina and a penis and that's what we expect everyone to look like!? craziness.

girls- leave your labia alone! guys will say stupid c**p like "meat curtains" and "roast beef lips" but when it comes down to it, as long as you keep yourself clean, they are more than happy with the appearance of your lips! i have never once had a male friend talk about a girl they hooked up with and mention anything about their labia, EVER. 

we are all beautiful and unique.

and to the men on here that love large labia and know that it doesn't mean a girl is "loose" please, inform your male friends!

About the guy who said that they "get in the way" during oral, he is not doing it right, and doesn't understand how to make a woman feel good. He needs some coaching.

Helllllooo!! So happy I googled this! I'm in my 20's and have always felt self conscious of my labia.....my hubby and previous bf told me they both love it b/c there's more friction so it feels better for men while having intercourse due to the "friction"...from what I hear men love it...I'm really glad I didn't get labiaplasty!!! :))

Personally I dont care what size a womans labia is as long as they are shaved clean, I will take every opportunity to enjoy that part of a woman. :-)

Uhhh.... Yeah... Corned beef curtains do look gross and theres nothing nicer than a tidy, beautifully presented, clean slit but I dont think girls should cut their flaps off.

i love large labia, they look nice and you just feel the urge to suck them..... seriously, i mean i'm erect rite now just think of it, i would never encourage a woman to reduce the size of hers