Is the kid through puberty or not yet? Can you see some puberty signs?
I have the same problem - I want to marry this woman, but she has a 12 year old boy who still sleeps with her and he even sucks his thumb and has started masterbating. It's all just too weird and creepy for me. Just like you I think she lies to me about his sleeping habits when I'm not there too.
I'm afraid our relationship will fail because of this, I get the distinct feeling that she likes him sleeping with her which frankly I find even more disgusting.
Ugh
in REPLY to the " guest who spoke of families sleeping togather on mats..i so .agree,we are natural folks stay nude 24-7 almost...we work here on our secluded organic farm...have yoga,music,plays etc.. the kids love running and playing naked, in their tree-houses etc. and yes,they have erections a lot''''very natural....We have have a family bed,where i sleep with my 5....if a parent or parents,have been away at work,or just wish to spend more time close...,this is quality time well spent....too many parents hung up on bodies,and fearing of hanky- panky...it is so easy to breastfeed, when we are all to-gather...have affection,head to toe group massage,comfort.,and security.
Please tell us what about with teenagers in the secluded farm? Have they free sexual life? How parents can manage their children puberty ?
Hi, tell me please if the kid started his puberty or not yet? Have you seen any body change? Where usually he masturbate? Maybe he only have dry orgasms.
I will only say one thing...... you should learn from big joint families in countries like india and pakistan, how come they all manage to sleep in a single room and never raise such question ? Still they manage to have a nice sexual life... their children's never face any difficulty like you all are getting worried about !!!
It's because they probably are American and you know how uptight Americans are about anything that might possibly be sex related. You do remember how we were deathly scared of a breast that time the Jackson girl had one of hers exposed on TV for 2 seconds.
I slept with my mom until I was almost 16. Dad worked out of town for 10 years and was gone until Friday night and had to leave again Sunday after lunch, We lived in a two bedroom home, sisters having one room, and I sharing with mom and dad When dad changed jobs, he was home a lot more, and added a room on for me. I know I enjoyed watching mom come to bed in her nightie, and in the winter when it was cold at night we turned the space heaters off. I being the youngest had to go to bed earlier than my sisters. Mom would come to be and wrestle with me for my warm spot. We got pretty excited doing that and I loved it. I think she did too be she was lonely, a enjoyed the warmth of another person against her. I love mom dearly, and she taught me soo many things a boy needed to know. I have been married 35 years with 3 adult children. There were no ill effects from sleeping with mom. I still remember how beautiful she was, and our fun and games. It was a beautiful .way to grow up from a boy into a man. I loved her, and to this day miss her after her death
My son is 14 and still occasionally shares my bed. I am single mom. He shared bed with both of us when we were married. He is a caring, stable, independent child that gets along well with others. We have a strong open communication relationship. He still knows I am his mother and he gives me respect. He never curses in front of me, and mostly listens to what I need him to do. Other adults always compliment me on how open and intelligent my son presents himself. I discussed cosleeping with our counselor when we went for therapy during the divorce. In researching many cultures and mammals especially the wolves, they all sleep in packs. My bed has cats and dogs on it in the morning. I think if there is no sexual activity around children, and the bed is for sleeping, then it is very calming. Chemicals in the body that cause stress are reduced, sleep apnea is reduced, as breathing patterns of people that share beds sync so that the dangers are less. It saves on the heating bill, and we can have great conversations about his future, we plan trips, events and brainstorm. My son knows he is my child not my mate. To me if it helps him feel comfortable, I don't care what others think. When he wants o sleep alone, or I do, we do. When you only parent and live with your children for an average of 18 years, why not be close. If it doesn't work for others that's their business. To me I love watching my child sleep.
Congratulations Hippie mom, That´s what I do with my son too, He is 14 like your kid, I love watching my son sleep, Is your kid through puberty or not yet? Did you notice any body change?
that is the sweetest thing I've ever heard.
wow this is great for me to hear thanks for sharing, My son is 9 and we've slept together his whole life. Im a single mom since he was 5. I'm getting wierdness signs from his father like he should definately be in his own bed before puberty. I'm looking around on the internet right now for answers, I'd love to talk to you more if you'd be willing....
Thanks really appreciate hearing how you live, it sounds wonderful. Living in Orange County California I can feel like theres something wrong with me but remember there are people like me out there! Hope to live like this someday soon!! very soon!! xoxoxoxo so much Love!~Jessi
is the child through puberty or not yet?
Where and when the kid masturbates?