You are not alone. I hate my breasts touched. No matter how I explained it he continues to do it. I want to cry, punch him, and avoid him. He is a great guy. But I am an object to him in my opinion when he does what I have asked him not to do.
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Ohkay but you do realize that YOUR pleasure doesn’t mater when it comes to us feeling comfortable. I’m 20 & I feel the same way. I let my bf do whatever but when I am NOT in the mood my boobs are OFF LIMITS. I feel like I’m being molested. Never had a traumatic experience or a kid molestation experience, I just simply do not like it. The feeling is a feeling of disgust and it’s so unwanted sometimes just the slightest brush past a nipple will make you HATE having them & hate the person for not understanding how it makes you feel. I guess it’s a woman thing but definitely needs to be respected because it’s not something we can control not is it comfortable to have someone sucking your nipples when you don’t want it. It’s not like a penis. Most guys love getting it sucked no matter the case but we DO NOT. NO ONE is missing out if it’s unwanted!
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I can definitely see this being a reason. Mine are SUPER SENSITIVE! When I was younger I would sleep in bras because I didn’t like my nipples touching my T-shirt especially when going to bed I felt like my nipples were being raped by my own BED! (I sleep on my stomach). It felt/feels so uncomfortable but I am also very maternal as a person in general my bf & friends tell me all the time “You’re such a mom”, I’m only 20. I hate that my nipples are overly sensitive and I wish I could not feel that way but idek if that’s possible.
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I feel the same but for me it was the biggest turn on. My husband could actually give me an orgasm just by playing with them. I had my second baby and it completly went. Now l feel yucky. I miss the feeling of enjoyment with it.
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I'm sorry you're both going through that:( I don't think it's because of what you mentioned though but I don't know, I have the same problem at times and the feeling makes me feel icky or dirty or a strange nauseous feeling but it almost never happens. Generally I get very turned on by it, someone mentioned intimacy issues and by going from the people I know who feel that way and myself that could partly be why. I hope everything works out, if my future husband for some reason has something against breasts and touching them it would probably drive me crazy lol
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There are 2 reasons why you would not like your breasts to be touched.
1. If you are not turned on, your nipple will not be 'activated' i.e. pleasurable to the touch. Many men do not take the time to prepare their wife during the day, by saying sweet words, touching them frequently, so by night, they feel loved and in tune for love making. At such times, the touch will be pleasurable. If the man just loves jumping straight into sex, it will feel like a tickling or not pleasurable.
2. Remember when you first fell in love? Your breast would be sensitive to touch even if you immediately made love, because you were eager to have your man. With time, that spark wanes away with all the issues of relationship and love becomes more than just a feeling, but intentional. The more the trouble, the more things stay unresolved, the less sensitive the touch to the breast will be, due to an inner irritation or dissatisfaction about issues of relationship. Make sure you take good care of your husband. Men want respect, women want to be loved. Men do not need to be loved. They interpret respect as love. Each partner must admit their faults and do not let issues stay for long unresolved.
At times, take some time and go away for about 1 week. This will rekindle the love and sex life when you meet after that short break and the nipple will be sensitive to the touch.
1. If you are not turned on, your nipple will not be 'activated' i.e. pleasurable to the touch. Many men do not take the time to prepare their wife during the day, by saying sweet words, touching them frequently, so by night, they feel loved and in tune for love making. At such times, the touch will be pleasurable. If the man just loves jumping straight into sex, it will feel like a tickling or not pleasurable.
2. Remember when you first fell in love? Your breast would be sensitive to touch even if you immediately made love, because you were eager to have your man. With time, that spark wanes away with all the issues of relationship and love becomes more than just a feeling, but intentional. The more the trouble, the more things stay unresolved, the less sensitive the touch to the breast will be, due to an inner irritation or dissatisfaction about issues of relationship. Make sure you take good care of your husband. Men want respect, women want to be loved. Men do not need to be loved. They interpret respect as love. Each partner must admit their faults and do not let issues stay for long unresolved.
At times, take some time and go away for about 1 week. This will rekindle the love and sex life when you meet after that short break and the nipple will be sensitive to the touch.
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I used to like it now I hate hate hate it. Doesn't anyone have a probable cause? Its causing problems between me and my soon to me husband
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I had this problem when I was younger, as in, all through my childhood and somewhat into my teen years before my breasts fully developed. It was awful. Anytime I accidentally brushed up against something my stomach would drop and I'd stare off into space for a few seconds thinking about how pointless everything was. I don't think this experience has anything to do with repressed memories, because for me the sensation went away when my breasts got bigger. They say large breasts lack sensitivity, I believe this is true and in my case thankfully so. I don't think I'd let anyone touch my boobs if I still experienced that.
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Talk to a therapist. You need help. Did you tell your husband before you got married about this.
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Talk to a therapist. You need help. Did you tell your husband before you got married about this.
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I see this is a very old post but thought I would respond anyway, I have the same problem always have, for me it is like what some people feel when they hear nails scratching down a blackboard. What made me comment, is I too wonder if when I was too young to remember I was possibly molested.
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You have made some important points. What you fail to realize is that during and after pregnancy the body changes. I used tok love my hubby going to town on my breasts but after baby number 1 I didn't enjoy it as much now after baby number 2 it just turns me off. I'm working on getting that part of my life back read a couple of articles that say you just have to relearn to enjoy. Will give it a try and see.
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I can't stand it , it pisses me off too. I think why I don't like it is he's always looking at other girls boobs, then wants mine.
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Grow up. She did and took on the role. Time for you, too. Child birth wrecks a woman's body, and she does it for the greater good, passing on your genetics. Just say thank you and celebrate her.
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