Husband only wants oral sex!

It sounds like you are talking about my wife and me. When we were young I tried everything to please my wife, I bet I can count on my fingers the amount of time I gave my wife an orgasm. I was very unsuccessful. After a whjile and I am talking 30 years of trying I was a failure. She has had several men before me and I feel as tho I just never measured up. She always says it was her but I know better and I know she loves me. I have given up and I think she is tired of sex with me. ( what's the use) She gives me oral 2 or three times a week. Yes I play the money game or mostly eating out game. Sex was always about me all thru our 40 year marriage. I tried to make her have orgasms but failed. Yes she is annoyed by me and my wants but she is a great wife. I cater to her on many things and I think it is a great trade off. It doesn't cost her anything and takes less than 6 minutes. I have never strayed, happy at home

you both should do ORAL sex togehter
that way you can have the same amount of pleasure

Ummmm you woman just need to know every man wants oral sometimes and so do women so if your not getting it let it be known that it's something u want or need too and if that doesn't work ..then whenever your about to give him oral begin then move around sit on his face DO 69 then know one looses an that's when you tell him it goes both ways easpecially if married because that should not be an issue from man or woman when married

Woman has gone without sex for 2 yrs. now!
As for your simple issue my husband does love oral! I am an attractive blonde with other guys staring at me all the time! They actually come up and flirt with me right in front of him. You would think that he would be happy with that! He becomes very jealous! He threatens to beat their ass! How ridiculous, you would think he would be proud to be married to me! He get's oral very seldom because he refuses to do anything for me. I ask him what's in it for me and he just laughs it off like it is nothing! For your information women need stimulation when it comes to sex also, so don't think because we have a hole that we get excited, because it is simply not true! If we are not excited we can become very dry and it can be very painful to have sex, so next time your with your girl think about that one! We need stimulation too!

so enjoy the free and honest truth!

WOMEN'S TRUTH!

Hopefully you deepthroat him. If you don't then I feel sorry for him.

Look lady....just face it Men are the dominant ones. Women are nothing more than nagging..whining ....crying .....just plain annoying creatures. Unfortunately Men have to endure these things just to fill that hole / holes women have. With that said ....if a women doesn't satisfy Mans member ..that said women will live a lonely life. Men do not care for other things about women.

We will show you respect for being a good girl.

It's not that the girls don't give oral.. It's that the guy takes all the oral he can get without offering sex. The blowjob to sex ratio is low.

No energy for sex yet he can have oral sex? He is lying and most likely trying not to be mean about the fact he most likely thinks the sex is boring or it got boring instead of coming out and saying to woman that they aren't great in bed or that things have gotten stale they come up with all kinds of excuses. Cooking, cleaning, and all the housewife stuff has nothing to do with sex or making anyone want to have sex. If he works out he has energy or he wouldn't be working out if he is too tired to have sex which requires less energy than working out. Try learning some new moves from the web that you've not done before, suggest to him that you want to try new things in the sheets, wear a sexy costume,get some toys for you and he can also use them on you as fourplay and don't ever give oral with out recieving at the same time. And if these things don't work then slip him viagra lol jk. But seriously if he won't go down on you and thinks that it is gross because some guys think this then don't ever give him any either and say its gross too. I'm 28 my bf is 40 and been together 6 yrs and i have never given with out recieving at the same time nor has ever been an ass like.  Sex is nothing to be shy about you gotta speak up to your partner or they may never know.

The way you are writing is so so funny. I admired it. But of course it is not funny subject at all. Thank you.

Well Guess what i had gotten a request for 5some! GEE WHIZ!! Saying that would be THE BEST GIFT FOR HIS BIRTHDAY!!

I'm sorry, but you are wrong!
I have been married for for 3 years together for 13. I've been have this issue with him for 2 1/2 years. He wants oral sex about 2-3 per week. He lets me know that he wants that but never initiates sex, never turns into sex. I have spoken to him about it, it changes one time then right back to himself. It is a vicious cycle.
Frankly, I am fed up! I think he is a selfish, narcissistic all about self him. I love my husband dearly but, it's the truth. Then I as think about it I start asking my self does he love me as much as I love him, why dosent he want to be with me? Ect. It really hurts your inner soul.
I am at the point where I just asked him if he is gay.. Well the response was not so good. He was pissed. Oh well!
So your analogy is way off!

Girl i am in the same situation and i am working on saving money on the side in an account he knows nothing about so i can move out and do better. My advice is that if he only wants oral sex and does care for your feelings at all then your with the wrong one find someone else or just be by yourself...Hell what most of us women do on a daily basic we can do alone and not have to have our feelings hurt and not have to be im a committed relationship...i wanna be married again one day and have a wonderful life but hell if all you are is a oral sex toy you can do that and be single and do what ever with whoever and you get pleased tooo....hope everything works out for you

I've seriously struggled with this issue. He stopped having sex with me more than 2 years ago. Thought it was his prostate, got checked out & everything was ok. Doc gave him an rx for cialis, but he refused to fill it. He wants a bj about every two weeks or so...he doesn't even attempt to please me. I am simply the vessel he uses. That's how it feels. He was sexually abused by a female babysitter from the ages of 5-12, he then became an addict for many years. He's been clean for 15 years now. I think he is so psychologically damaged from his sexual abuse, he is locked in a world he cannot escape. My self esteem is suffering, I'm depressed, i've gained 25 pounds and I'm thinking of leaving him. I love him with my whole heart, but it took me years to be ok with me, and this is damaging me too. I've tried to talk to him. He said when he got clean he went to intensive therapy and nothing...he is who he is. I can usually tackle a problem head on, but this...I do not know what to do...

As a man I'll tell the answer. You've stopped performing oral or very rarely. Then it becomes all we think about. We remember. It's been a month. 2 3 4 months. Then birthday passes and all were waiting for is a blowjob. And none. It's more than receiving oral it means to is that you're with us. You're willing to do it. It just means more to is than you women think. Do it once or twice a week or once every two weeks. You'll find well comply with anything u want

I'm in the same situation as many of the other women here.  My man wants oral every single time.  He wants me to give it to him right up until he starts to cum, then climb on top for a couple of strokes as he finishes.  I've been with him for 7 months and in the beginning he told me that it would get better as we were together longer as he needed to get more comfortable with me.  Well, in all honesty nothing has changed.  Sometimes he'll stop me in the middle of a BJ and play with me for a few minutes, or lick me a few times.  Yep, just about long enough for him to go soft again so I have to start all over again on him.  I'm to the point that I don't even want him to touch me anymore.  Just get it over with.  I think in the 7 months we've been together, we've maybe had real intercourse maybe 4 or 5 times.  And each time I still had to give him oral after intercourse so he could come.