The truth is you are a piece of sh*t. The problem wasn't with giving her husband oral sex it was that that is the only sex he wants. Just because we have a vagina doesn't mean it's just ready to go at the drop of a hat. You are an ass hole and I bet you are single or can't keep a girlfriend very long
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Hi even my husband is the same . Even when I give him intercourse he regret to give mr
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Having a "hole" to go in doesn't mean that "hole" is pleasurable when something is shoved into it, especially when you're not turned on enough. Ladies actually require more touching and stimuli before they're ready for sex. because they have a "hole" it would seem men assume they are ready to have something go into it all the time. In fact, it is unfortunately very common because there's no surefire way to tell if a woman is ready just by looking, whereas with a man, you always know... It's sad, really... at least a women knows when a man is ready and can go from there. Most men don't even bother to find out if a woman is ready before shoving it in. And most women are too shy to say when they weren't quite ready. But because (cave man logic) "if I have hard stick, and hole, stick can go in hole." NO. And if you honestly think women are ready all the time because they have a "hole" I pity the poor unsatisfied women you've slept with. TRUTH.
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The problem isn't oral it's that he only wants oral and nothing else. There is no other sex and that makes him a selfish pig
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BS, he takes and takes and gives nothing in return just wanting more selfish sex, I get zero in return, so I give him nothing and found a man who returns all I give. A man who gives no pleasure is a selfish POS find a real man who gives what he gets.
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Ive been doing exactly that, continuing to give and please him everytime. Which I enjoy, I love being able to give him the best pleasure i can. Thats not the problem, its that he has no interest in pleasing me in return, not just in return, but ever really. Im way past the point of expecting it returned everytime. But maybe a couple times a year would be nice.. And when he does he complains beforehand andvacts like its taking so long and it just kills the mood for me. I will mention that I have great hygiene and have always been told im very attractive and I have a nice body, face, Im comforatble in my skin, i dont understand. I try to dress sexy for him and have suggested many things to try. He just has no interest. Why be in relationship with someone you have no interest in??Weve only been together for 2 years and he used to make sure I came everytime but not in a long time. Close to a year. Were young-ish, im 31 hes 33. I feel like he cant possibly love me if he doesnt care if im happy in our relationship. But he insists he loves me and wants to be with me. Ive brought up this issue many times though i hate bring it up because i dont know why I need to, especially multiple times! Were engaged, how can I make him understand this is a deal breaker. The rest of our relationship is mostly good so if we can fix this problem things would be great. Hes a really good man. Just a bad lover. He does know how to be a good lover, he just dont want to.
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You just described my life. I mean exactly dead on. Im sorry your going through that. It might sound minor to some people, but to some it consumes your whole life. I question myself constantly and feel my self esteem has suffered so much. I think your right that it stems from not feeling loved as a child. And how do you fix that right?! I try to figure out if sexual pleasure is worth breaking our family up and our daughter growing up like that. Or do I stay and live the rest if my life feeling unhappy and insecure and unloved? Is that really selfish? Who knows, I sure cant figure out what to do. Life is short, youth is shorter, why waste it unhappy. But then again I would sacrafice anything if it was better for my daughter (9 months old) but is being an unhappy mother really better for her?
Gosh life is so complicated!!!
Gosh life is so complicated!!!
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to be honest . That is terrible. if he truly love you, he shouldnt be treating you like that. if he doesnt listen to you about how u feel . you have to put a stop sign &say enough is enough there is a limit to that. if u allowed him to used u like that .than he think it ok he can control u. you gotta take action,. never depend on your husband with money. try working some little income with sah job or something else.
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i feel pain reading what you just wrote. your daugther is young. you can survive with out or with a husband. put it like this . your happiness is your daugther. forcus on her. if your husband isnt treating you right. Tell him how you feel or find a way to escape the oralsex.
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Ask him what the reason for him holding himself back. he love u . Mens can never expressed their love in a way. If your man isnt giving u the answers and not willing to fix it or do something. girl it isnt you . it him. i hope he isnt cheating on you.
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than if he treat u like that make him feel what u feel. no women should feel like they are nothing.
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ladies if you feel like your man want only that. He using you in a way. move on be a better you by making your self happy. respect your self. if your bf making you feel like sh*t . Leave his ass and find a man who truly want you for you not to used you.
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Well, it might be just a hole, but it needs to be hot & moist for sex not to be painful. Foreplay & oral sex should be done on both parts so that both partners can be satisfied.
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Hmm he’s selfish - I’m the opposite I just like going down on her I don’t care if I have sex or even cum. Her getting off is all I’m focused on that makes me happy. Tell your man nope no booed until you get yours first
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