Husband only wants oral sex!

Almost 3 years of marriage...Our anniversary is in Feburary and will be completing 3 years... No sexual intimacy...I am in US on his dependent visa....2nd marriage for both.... So no escape... from Indian culture...Cant return back due to society issues...I have applied for student visa..Yet 4 months to go... We do sort of sex...kissing hugging...he fingers me...i sometime tale his P*** in mouth but That's it!!! He says NO to everything else!!! I cant keep waiting, praying and hoping. Please advise

I'm so sorry for what you had gone through. I do see however that your post is a year old. I hope to God that for wife is on the healing end, and as for you Sir I can sympathize :-( I love pleasing my husband but feel so rejected from the start of our marriage as it seems it's all about him. I would be in heaven if he would enjoy releasing at the very same time I did that's my heart's desire, and then he wouldn't even have to ask for oral it would be such an honor to give it to him. I find it to be so sad that they're caring men out there who go through the same if not worse than what I do. I think it's a past emotional sickness on my husband's part too. Very sad for us both as we love our spouses dearly.

Married twenty years. Gained weight, hubby only wants oral sex we've had sex ten times in last ten. Now he wants to watch me give oral to another guy and he wants to try it too

I feel you. I'm in same position and it hurts and it's hard not to hate men at this piont. I'm building up a wall and can't even stop myself.

The problem is in this ridiculous stupid world. When men grow up watching porn, satisfaction becomes not enough and they want more and more and more. They arnt able to have intimate, passionate, loving and amazing sex with their spouse and they are blinded with their turned on hard penises and porn replaying in their heads. Men want new things, toys, fun and play and only what satisfies them. Women do NOT deserve that. Not only women but sometimes men can b in that situation and no one deserves it. A relationship is not 50/50 it's 100/100. Both need to kill their own pride and live to make one another happy and ONLY THEN, will things b good. A selfish person is a person with a good heart. And a selfish person knows how to b happy when making someone else happy and when both ppl do that, thar relationship is stronger than ever. Sadly... That's rare in this selfish world.

Selfless** not selfish! Selfless

Well I'm 27 and my husband is 25 and I'm 7 months pregnant with our 4th baby, and I mean it's not the first I'm pregnant, so why is acting like he's disgusted by me. He doesn't want to have sex only oral, and the moment he's satisfy he's done. Nothing for me! I try to get take it, but I end up feeling worse cus he will just push me off, sometimes I feel like he's getting somewhere else that's why he doesn't feel the desire to have sex with me. And the only thing he doesn't feel so disgusted by is oral.
I feel worthless!

My opinion: if anyone is worthless it's him.
My wife will NOT give me oral but that never stopped me from licking her until she was moaning and vibrating. I love doing that to her.

I FELT SO ALONE ON THIS TOPIC THAT'S MY RELATIONSHIP WE BEEN TOGETHER 10 YEARS HAVE A ONE YEAR OLD BUT THE LENGTH OF TIME I GO WITHOUT SEX IS FRUSTRATING YET HE GETS ORAL ON A REGULAR..I HAVE MENTIONED THIS TO HIM BUT I GET PROMISES AND NOTHING NOW I DON'T LOOK FORWARD TO SEX BECAUSE I KNOW AFTER HE GETS ORAL HE'S SLEEPING AND I'M FRUSTRATED

Sorry to hear that. I'm opposite. She gives me oral so rarely that I almost don't want sex out of spite. We can have sex whenever. Just a simple bj or hj. Is impossible round here. Guess we all suffer in our own ways. Seems the most petty things can be the most consuming

My husband and I have been married for over two years now and we're a really young couple. We used to have sex multiple times a day and we would be optimistic into trying new positions. After a year or so he started getting tired from working so hard and I would be working too, so maybe that was the reason why we haven't been having sex for awhile. My husband loves getting oral sex, especially when I rub his penis while licking his balls and also when I rub and suck his penis between my breasts. Don't get me wrong, I get satisfied when he gets so hard and that he cums quickly, but right afterwards he just doesn't want to have sex with me because he says that he won't get hard anymore.

I've talked to him multiple times to have sex with me and he says that I'm just too active and that he doesn't get aroused anymore. How am I supposed to believe that? We would have sex once a month while I would give him oral almost every day. He doesn't even suck or squeeze my breasts anymore. I would even show my breasts without a bra on and wear a robe so my breasts would be peeking out, he would notice them, but would only jiggle them a little bit. I swore I thought that would've turned him on, I guess not.

But then one day he and I went to a hotel because we were traveling back home. I decided to do something different that he and I would both win at, so I wore this really sexy and skanky lingerie and he was very turned on by that, and I gave him a lap dance. I was in control and I told him that if he touched me, the lap dance is over. He was so turned on and I kept teasing him. Towards the end of the lap dance, he grabbed me and started kissing, sucking, licking, squeezing, and put himself inside of me without a condom and he was going crazy. It was amazing. He cummed more than 4 times and I was so satisfied, even I orgasmed many times.

And we have been going at it for awhile now. I would do kinky things to him like cuff him on the bed, or wear sexy costumes, or lick a dildo and rub it between my breasts. He has been going after me and getting seduced that he starts banging me and cumming inside of me. We're both happy now. We girls just need to be creative and be more aggressive in a sexual way. My husband loves it a lot ;) good luck

Wrong. She said that's ALL he wants. Not just sometimes or as foreplay. THAT is understandable. ONLY oral, ONLY for him, EVERY time, is WRONG, SELFISH, & NOT ACCEPTABLE!!

A "morning wood" in your lingo is most always a "PISS HARD-ON" in the real world!! But your only 15 and shouldn't be trying to give advice on this website.....

And it can be ridden!!!!!!!!!!

Just for your information, we can't just jump into it either. I can't count the times I have given my husband oral. He just turns over and goes to sleep. We really haven't had real sex in quite a while. He says he has problems in that department. I'm just wondering if he isn't into me.