Husband only wants oral sex!

I’m so surprised so many women are going through this abuse and that’s what I feel exactly what it is . I’m going through also . 50 years old and he’s 48 . I feel unattractive depressed , frustrated, angry, lonely the list goes on and on . I asked him fought with him and his answer is always “I don’t know why I can’t have sex . I want to “. I call BS . Excuses for something he can’t say out loud the pride of a man can run in them . I feel your pain and feel for all the women who like with a selfish man like I do . Life is short don’t go without touch and desire. Find it and do it . He would do the same if shoe was in other foot . We all know this .

I’m so surprised so many women are going through this abuse and that’s what I feel exactly what it is . I’m going through also . 50 years old and he’s 48 . I feel unattractive depressed , frustrated, angry, lonely the list goes on and on . I asked him fought with him and his answer is always “I don’t know why I can’t have sex . I want to “. I call BS . Excuses for something he can’t say out loud the pride of a man can run in them . I feel your pain and feel for all the women who like with a selfish man like I do . Life is short don’t go without touch and desire. Find it and do it . He would do the same if shoe was in other foot . We all know this .

I’m so sorry, listen I’m 50?in same selfish relationship with a man worse then yours. I keep saying I’m 50 who will want me so at least I’m not alone so take what I can get . If I was 20 young like you get out now . You will become so depressed and self worth gone the kids won’t even like you . U need and will not settle next time . But you should not hope for the best to happen cuz it won’t not with this situation they only get worse. Like u said waisting your youth waist your pretty not a option! starting to wonder reading all the women who deal with this that men are getting worse . I heard about the porn addictions and what happens in a marriage.. if I knew what I know now I would tell my 20 year old self to . RUN!!

I might be wrong but sounds like he might be getting sex from someone else.

I am depressed reading this thread, I am tired of pleasing my husband without getting reciprocation. You should speak up for yourself. Although, I am timid I like to keep the waters calm too. So just be speak up !