Same here, my hubby loves oral & would be the only sex we had if I let it happen. If I let him finish in my mouth, it would be a week or more before I get any penetration. So, I simply start him off with oral & proceed with sex, unless he doesn't mind getting blue balls. Also, don't be afraid to tell him what you want in bed. If he cares about you, he will listen & make time eventually. Try to be patient if you have a partner with a lower sex drive or ED. If his manhood tends to go limp during sex, just tell him to continue w his hands and mouth instead of awkward disappointment.
I believe that any man or woman will feel the urge to cheat if they don't get what they want sexually. If you dont give your man oral, he will likely get it elsewhere & this goes for women too.
I believe that any man or woman will feel the urge to cheat if they don't get what they want sexually. If you dont give your man oral, he will likely get it elsewhere & this goes for women too.
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I think I'm in love. You really run the show. So does my wife but it's called I don't feel like it.
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Women need stimulation too. The "hole" as you call it doesn't come lubricated by itself. Without stimulation it is dry and painful for both.
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Im 40 and my boyfriend of 5 years is 26.. when we werent living together we had sex all the time. Now we live together and i loterally have to beg for it. He takes oral w no questions but when it comes to actually the act of sexual intercourse.. he is either too tired.. or he falls asleep.. or pushes me off him saying hes not in the mood.. i have no odea what to do..
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Ladies if you want oral .... Clean it up and make it taste like food to get him started. Also put a beer or bourbon or glass of wine or whatever on the night stand, Make it fun and pleasurable for him, the more fun the longer he will enjoy himself, and the more satisfied you will be.... Then help him get it right. Once he sees your reaction and reciprocation I have no doubt it will be something that you both enjoy. If he still resists give him a couple of glasses of wine or booze to loosen him up...climb up and help him out, he might be shy. Easy peasy,
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Yeah cuz my husband don't eat it or touch it an don't make it wet before putting it in. But want me to do him why?
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Im 22 and my husband is 26, we've been married for 5 months! In the beginning it was oral for him then maybe if I was lucky sex later... if not then sex the next day. No it's oral for him.... there's no affection no trying he just demands and that's it. And when I say no he rips his pants up turns over and fights with me for an hour about how I'm stressing him out... he barely touches me anymore and that even includes even if I do give him head everyday maybe twice a day for a few days... I can't even begin to tell you the last time he went down on me, because I simple can't remember when that was... and sex is out of the question... the last time we had sex was because I sat there crying about how miserable I was and he felt bad and stock it in there for all of ten minutes then went back to his game on his phone... he just makes me feel like he doesn't care. Won't go to counseling won't ignolage me... and the fact that it's been 5 months just makes me wonder why he bothered to marry me.
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Mine doesn't touch me at all. All it is... Is put it in your mouth doesn't kiss me doesn't even touch me, unless it holding my head on his penis to cum..
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And you allow that? Make him give you face before you give him brain and it better be good or he won't get any.
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Well im 36 and my man is 26 and our sex life was one from out of porn until a year ago now its more me performing oral than anything and he only wants me to mastrubate while doing that we might have sex maybe once a month and he really not into it anymore I feel like im only worth my mouth he doesn't even try to please me frfr like im not even human I know he loves me I just feel like he's no longer attracted to me I feel less than a woman or human for that matter
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