I would have liked oral but my wife was not into it so I lived without it. He seems a little strange to me if he goes soft while he's licking you. I think he needs help. Play with you for a few minutes? That should be his sole purpose during sex, making sure you get all the pleasure you need and a little extra. When I was licking my wife I got a super woody and would even come while doing it as she climaxed. There was nothing that made me feel better than knowing I had done her well. A happy wife makes a happy man. he has a lot to learn. Maybe you could get some counseling?
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Oh... Yes. it is true and It helps significantly . My name is Ms. Kelvy Roma. (26) years old . My marriage is just One year old. Three or Four months after marriage I enjoyed marital life.....But gradually I did not get more zest for sex... Last Month I had gone to my best friend"s (FEMALE) house, she showed me some sex movies from her laptop , I saw how oral sex and sperm have dominated the entire movie. I found both girls and Boys are enjoying oral sex in full swing. And no doubt it is the vital cream of Boys SPERM which gives extra energy to girls. Yes it has anti-depression quality. There after I have been enjoying oral sex with my Husband. Believe me He has been more enthusiastic and aggressive at the time of oral sex. And obviously I am sucking his most precious white creamy semen. Believe me after consuming huge quantity of semen now I have gained super health. Every day I get new phase of life... Now I am enjoying sexual life in full swing ..... so thanks to my best friend who gave new path of life........
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Very common. Usually happens due to a man having a decreased libido, erectile dysfunction ( easier to deal with if the erection involves less effort ), and/or have challenges emotionally in connecting/feeling with others. Sex may have been assisted with connecting intimately when younger, but has never been true intimacy. Once sex drive has diminished, there isn't any way to relate. It's sad but true, and he's the one who is dysfunctional. No lone is a failure, though he is likely dysfunctional and may even suffer from depression.
Often this leads to a man acting out. Harsh words about your marriage, or his attraction to you, vs the heart of the matter.
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I fill the same way and I'm starting to give up its like he just has sex with me to keep me from complaining but here lately we have have not even had sex in two months and I can't do it much longer
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My husband does have sex with me but he cant get off. It makes me feel unatractive or inadequate. Then he says during sex that im messing it up and thats why he cant have an oragasm. Still yet i know different i know its not my fault but he refuses to admit he just cant do it. We always end up fighting. He threatens to go have other women complete the mission. When he talks to me like this it makes me want nothing to do with him.
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What a stupid reply
We should have to nice our men pleasure and expect nothing in return that way we will eventually get good was lmao
Yeah so we do all your mummy things washing cooking cleaning wtc give you pleasure then wait for good sex
Do you think we'd be with you if the sex wasn't good to start with Hell No
Men get complacent lazy and think we'll stick around and get nothing in return I think your forgetting women are more independent these dats and if our men don't step up to the mark we know a new one will
I think you need to get out the 1900s we are not your mother replacements and just pleasure givers we have needs too
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You men make me laugh
Oral is all you men think about
Yep sounds about right so next time your on that singles dating site AGAIN remember these words
You can't just take in life you have to give us women have high sex drives too
How'd you like to give us oral several times a week and get nothing back
Oral is all you men think about
Yep sounds about right so next time your on that singles dating site AGAIN remember these words
You can't just take in life you have to give us women have high sex drives too
How'd you like to give us oral several times a week and get nothing back
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You are so right, whenever I see a desirable woman I think about how I would like to have her sit on my face. Several times a week? I should be so lucky.
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You were put here to serve his needs. Face it...your c**t smells like a sewer. Be glad you have a roof over your head and he doesn't beat you..which IS not acceptable.
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And what if the only thing he wants is oral? You give him oral once or twice a week and he gives you nothing in return for 8 months... Literally asks for you to give him oral then when done says "now leave me alone". You bring up wanting sex from him and he laughs. Or when he knows it's been a while for you and asks for oral says "I know it's your turn but..." What do you do then? What's the truth there? I don't please myself I literally rot for almost a year waiting for him to come around. He tells me I should just learn to please myself. If I say no to him asking for oral he gets hurt and upset but when I ask Im laughed at.
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Sounds like he does not respect you or your feelings. Maybe you should consider leaving him since he is only thinking of himself.
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Something to consider: If a man is challenged with reaching orgasm (due to libido or physical or medication challenges) Oral is often the easiest way to achieve orgasm. Ignoring a woman's needs, may be a side effect of his focusing on that orgasm. Men may be so desperate at that point of challenge that they can only see one thing, their threatened performance, sexuality.. which is very closely tied into them seeing themselves as masculine.
When they behave as such (self focused) they are blind to the threat to the relationship, for they are trying to save themselves emotionally. They don't want to feel life has somehow emasculated them.
It is a shame that SOME men feel so threatened, and their ability to function sexually takes a toll on their partner. That man becomes boring in time to his partner. First response may be love and compassion, but the toll eventually mutates into boredom, anger, resentment for his partner. He looks anything but masculine in time, for to me being male or female is taking responsibility and having integrity with your partner health emotionally etc.
When they behave as such (self focused) they are blind to the threat to the relationship, for they are trying to save themselves emotionally. They don't want to feel life has somehow emasculated them.
It is a shame that SOME men feel so threatened, and their ability to function sexually takes a toll on their partner. That man becomes boring in time to his partner. First response may be love and compassion, but the toll eventually mutates into boredom, anger, resentment for his partner. He looks anything but masculine in time, for to me being male or female is taking responsibility and having integrity with your partner health emotionally etc.
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