I wouldn't worry to much about your beautiful butterfly labia to much, teen boys don't know what real vaginas look like and think they are all like you see in porn when they are not, just like any body part they are slightly different from the next, if your bf can't handle the site of your beautiful gifted treasure you have down there then he isn't the right one for you.
Be proud of your beautiful gift you have been given :)
I'm a grown-up mature woman not a child luckily husband loves me the way I am.
The other thing I was going to add was - a few people here have commented that the minimalist look is the porn star look - I don't find that at all. I think you guys are watching the wrong porn. if you just go to any of the free sites theres a HUGE variety of different videos (be it amateur or professional) featuring women with different types of vulva. So for anyone who is insecure about this I would recommend to just click on some random videos and watch a little bit. You'll soon find that every woman looks different down there and you may even spot some that have bigger labia than yours! I think lack of exposure is a huge problem - as its considered pornographic we are just not used to seeing many different types of labia. Straight women typically would never see another woman's junk (we're not in the habit of checking each other out down there LOL). So you are left to wonder whether your style is normal or not. The point is there is no normal and we are all different, just like with faces. Your vulva is unique to you so accept what you have - I would love to have bigger lips but there's no magic op for us smallies which would solve that - we're literally stuck with what we were given (which isn't much). The other thing I was going to mention was confidence. I'll let you in on a little secret - guys don't really care about looks that much - its all about confidence. So rock whatever you have down there, wear your dangly bits with pride and they will wanna f*ck you till the cows come home.