Mothers who leave their children

Im 63. My wife left the kids and i 2 years ago. Said things about me obdid not do. Said kids did things they did not do. She got a new life. Loved it and her new friends. Lived in total secret. 6 months later her new life started to unravel. She then saight after the kids who are teenagers. But by that time all she had done had taken its toll on them. They want nothing to do with her. The more she bosses them using the law the more it sticks in their craw. I know several women who have left their families. Kids older now and won't have anything to do with those trying to come back to them. Everyone feels like running at times. Responsibilities can overwhelm the strongest individual's. And sometimes counciling can be worse advise than getting non at all. Running wont set you free. Because you will never be able to outrun you And people are people everywhere. The answers you want are ancient and in a place most are afraid to look. Peer pressure and pride rules the lives of most people. Contentment has no meaning to people today. The grass may look greener on the other side of the fence but thats only because you have not got over there yet to tromp and eat it down. Once you do the grass where you are will get green again without you. But you can never go back. God has given you a great life and great kids. Probably even a great husband. Start looking for the good where you are. Be thankful for what you have, not chasing after what you think you may want. The clouds will disappear where you are and you can nevet catch a rainbow. Love your life! Embrace it! It's a gift from God! His gift of love!

How are you doing? It's been a year...but I can understand your situation. It took me 3 years to adjust to my daughter...and now I have a 1 year old son who I wanted to do adoption for...being unmarried parenting is very stressful...

it aint that easy, staying for my son, will lead me to suicide. I must take care of me inorder for me to be a mother for my child, man it hurts, it hurts.. hard to explain over the computer.