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Sasa Milosevic, MD answered this (Anal) Sex Lubricants And Safety Issues
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Guest

Anal sex without pain is possible, you just have to relax and your boyfriend just needs to lubricate before he enters and then enter slowly, after you are both comfortable you can try going faster but don't rush it, (this is advise given to me from friends that have experience, I've never had anal sex)
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juan

grandmaison wrote:


I have just read your post and I want to tell you some stuff about my anal sex experience. I guarantee you that anal sex is possible without any accompanying pain, but you must keep some thing on your mind all the time.
First thing you should know is that good mood is necessary. Having a clean rectum is the next thing you should know.
You see, you don’t have to clear your rectum with special medication but eating a fiber based food at least day before will help a lot.
You should be relaxed as much as you can because it is the crucial thing for this to work.
When you learn all this- along with use of some lubricants will make your anal sex experience a lot better and pain free.


As I said before I'm a 24 year old man and I've been dating boys for a whileand I've been f*****g them a lot now I want experience that but I'm scared and I don't like pains so what I would like to know how to reduce a pain from or when you doin anal sex ( performing) it so please help I do like this guy and we planning to get married soon you ***this post is edited by moderator *** *** private e-mails not allowed*** Please read our Terms of Use
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Kiran Desai

I never try but I want to change to gay before that you tell me that I will like or it's just pain
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Poet4life229079

Also you can relax and have your man lube his finger to losen it up and relax it a bit befor actual Penatration. My ex loved this way and never complained. She said it was almost as good and regular sex
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Poet4life229079

Also after your in and if you can go all the way in with no pain...try and do it harder. If u still have no pain you can go faster and harder or just really fast. She loved it
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EP

What are the best positions for anal sex? I just had anal sex last night and the pain and discomfort were there the whole time.
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ChrPer230242

Yes it is possible, not just possible but quite achiveable. You must not rush it, it cant be done like 3, 2, 1 go. Your BF should go and learn a thing or two on how to do anal sex properly. Recomend him to read Jacks Anal Persuasion to get some knowlege abot the subject.
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Guest

Purchase some Anal Ez it dulls the pain
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Guest

yes there is Lidocaine based creams, the cream have anesthesis ability.
really no pain
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Randy Sanchez

Yes I'm no doctor but I'm been studying on it because me and my girl. Have the same thing going on as you and your man best thing to do is go to a sex doctor that know on this also be real slow when doing it and use lot's off lub! by the way yes there pills and you my better off use some penus toy's first from small to big to get use to it start small.!!!!! good lock and be care full if there pain don't go all way go straight to the doctor!>
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krista

If I get HIV it would have been way before anal sex...only people with HIV give HIV you dont just get it from anal sex
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andrea

My boyfriend has a small penis and this makes it very enjoyable. I once tried it with a guy who was huge and this hurt a lot!
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CasHun257604

Hun the BEST way to do is for 1. relax :) and use lube and have him put a little in then completely pull out then put another inch in and completely pull out and keep doing this, and add a inch of his penis everytime and in no time He'll be all the way in :) and Also tell him to let you guuide it in instead of ramming it in and it also makes u feel way better knwoing that ur in control

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Guest

Hi I have an anal sex and have found to enjoy it. I was actually the one that first brought it up to my boyfriend. He was all for it. The first time we tried, it hurt immensely and I wanted it out so we stopped. I then suggested a few weeks later that we try again. He slid himself in and it was painful again, I told him to wait for me to relax and after about a minute it wasn't painful at all. So he thrusted it and out and I found it pleasurable. Afterwards, I felt like I had to poop really bad. The next day I still had the feeling, but I couldn't. I was a little sore, but nothing unbearable. I definitely want to try it again. We didn't use any lube, but I think it would make it better.
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Guest

It is possible to not feel a lot of pain. The people above are 100% correct, you have to take him at your pace. It is important to use lube (Pur) is the best that I've found. Anal Eze is not bad, but it desensitizes him. My boyfriend is very large and he really enjoys anal. There are still times when he gets excited and rushes in a bit and when he does that it helps to bare down (Like trying to push something out) it actually relaxes your muscles so that you can take him in further. Of course, if he does have patients with him, you could always show him what it feels like :D i bet that will make him slow down a bit lol

 

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