don't like nipples to be touched

Oh my I am experiencing the EXACT same things!! Little to no interest in sex too!!!

There is an answer! D-MER! And reading it makes sense. Another commenter added that this is *not* actually a breastfeeding issue but a drop in dopamine which anyone could experience and I'm not sure why the bulk of commenters seem to have missed it, but I'm incredibly excited by that answer. The drop in dopamine causes a feeling and then we search for and apply a cognitive response. But it's entirely chemical. We're literally overthinking this situation!

Exactly. Trolls who were probably looking for breast-focused porn, Found this post, and are getting off on demeaning the women (and men!) who need actually medical answers. These creatures are mentally wounded and, clearly, much more in need of breast-related psychological help than any of us, especially if D-MER is the answer (and I think it is).

I feel the exact same way!! I’m so glad I’m not alone!

Anyone finding the answer? Dopamine most likely deficient? Maybe serotonin answer iron as well?

I was also molested at a young age, I have thyroid issues, hashimoto's, and I hate mybreasts being touched, more specifically, I hate when they are hard and someone/something touches them. I was raised Christian,and taught that any sexual touching is wrong and disgusting, you shouldnt look at or touch yourself, and you shouldnt let anyone else look or touch.

I'm having the same problem like you.

Ditto. I’ve had this problem for years. I nursed all of our 4 children. I have wondered if this is a conflict in My psyche.

I'm same. When is my husband touching my nipples even by accident it makes me angry, uncomfortable, sick and makes me extremely irritated and it's basically disgusting feeling. It's weird because 12 years ago I didn't mind it but then I saw disgusting video on the internet where a grown man with beard was breastfeeding from women.. and I can't push that awful video out of my mind and now I feel like every time my husband wants to suck my nipples its like breastfeeding. Also that terrible video somehow reminded me that I was actually kind of molested when I was child and I totally forgot about it till I realized that I absolutely hate my nipples being touched. I don't want to talk about details but when I was kid probably age 4-5 I had bath times in big tub with my little bit older sister. And for some reason and I don't know why she wanted to touch and suck my nipples even she was only like 7-8 old.. Probably for fun and she most likely forgot about it now days.. but that time I was screaming and fighting her during our bath times end eventually parents which didn't notice anything since they didn't see it stopped putting us together into one bath... So my suggestion is that this kind of phobia can start by either seeing something with breasts you don't like or molesting when you were child. And from my own experience I know you can actually push molesting out of your memory as I did.. and then I remembered it after so many years later. And since I have this problem about 9 years now I'm almost sure it will never change or go away.... And by the way real breastfeeding of my own child was absolute nightmare for me even I actually did it for 5 months because it's supposed to be good for child health...

Why? You keep pushing the issue and so what other women can have orgams by breasts. Giving her a orgasm is about pleasing her not you isnt it? Kiss around the breast its just a nipple i dont get why you so obsessed with it. It does nothing and it doesnt please her which is the whole point so its worthless. Why does it matter how she has one. I really dont get why you are envious of it. You got issues maybe stop watching porn or comparing woth other couples.

Thanks for the effort of conducting this research because no one else seems to be trying.

I get angry if i accidentally bump into my nipples! I hate having them touched ever since puberty. I have two kids and bottle fed them. I would have bottle fed anyway because i have to take meds that pass through breast milk. I don't want an answer to why this is so much as i want a way to permanently numb my nipples. Then i would be much happier. I wear padded bras even in bead so i don't accidentally bump into them and become enraged while trying to sleep. There has to be a surgery to sever the nerves or something. Any ideas on this rout?

I have that feeling too and I did NOT know it was common. I thought I was abused and forgot. So I have a few theories:

1- we are overly sensitive in general. Super tasters and cant stand strong tastes too like lemons.

2- exposed to a lot of sexual content at a young elementary age messed us up? Grew up with unsupervised internet and brothers and dad that would forget stuff on, maybe that grossed us out and shocked us, then we got scarred sexually?

Anyone else exposed to sexual content at a young age?

You missed the point completely with this one, the person was saying to her “mentally” inside she can’t get over the fact that men over specialize breast’s and how it related to her being a mother and she can’t get past the block. Just because you enjoy breast’s and doing all that, you don’t need to jump on here and tell someone you feel bad for them. I completely understand what she meant and feel the exact same way. Men just don’t get it. And they can never relate. If your female then shame on you for that response.

You missed the point completely with this one, the person was saying to her “mentally” inside she can’t get over the fact that men over specialize breast’s and how it related to her being a mother and she can’t get past the block. Just because you enjoy breast’s and doing all that, you don’t need to jump on here and tell someone you feel bad for them. I completely understand what she meant and feel the exact same way. Men just don’t get it. And they can never relate. If your female then shame on you for that response.