I feel sick when im near my girlfriend...why?

DUDE you love her.That sick feeling is butterfly's you love her so much that you get sick most guys get this because they think that she will leave them.So their heads make a way to keep ur mind off it so you get sick.Or your so nervous you'll screw up so u get sick to your stomach

I'm just experiencing this, sometimes when im with my boyfriend i get a sicky feeling and have to vomit, it's awful, i hope it stops

Me and my girlfriend have been dating almost 2 years now, we have had sex lately, earliest was a few days ago, morning after that last day, she felt nauseas, but i had some trouble and she was worried and we didnt talk all day and it was fixed up that night. Next day the nausea is gone, but comes back whenever she thinks of sex/something sexual, shes not scared of sex we have done it and are comfortable with it, she has some anxiety problems and does have a therapist, but talks about other things. How do you fix this? a few days ago we can think of whatever we want and not have any problems, but now the thought of making love with me makes her nasueate. Finally, she assures me (like said in previous posts) that when we get together and we embrace and make love she would feel like before and would be okay, i feel the same way, nauseus and have butterflies, but thats when i know theres set like dates and times when we would have sex/meet and things like that 

Man, I am having this same feeling. I have been dating my girl for about 6 months but 3 weeks ago I started to have the same feeling of sickness when I was around her or even when I thought about her. I dont want to leave her, but I dont know what to do. I even had to vomit once because the feeling in my stomach was really bad. I know this was a year ago but please help me. If you got better tell me what you did because I'm starting to feel really bad and I dont know what to do.

Guess what everyone...I am 55 yrs old and still have that sick feeling around my husband and when we are about to have sex. I think it is anxiety sometimes and I have never figured out what to do. I love my husband very much and he is so good to me. If anyone comes up with a solution, let me know. I feel like it is in the mind and maybe we feel that anxiety occurs subconsciously of not being able to please our mate...

these are called intrusive thoughts. They are a type of "pure O" OCD. look it up. it'll clarify things.

I am very young also and i have problems when i first start a relationship for instance i went to a fair and met a girl and i am not even dating her but yet i still get queasy if i think about a girl or if i start dating somebody i constantly have that feeling in my stomach. i don't know what it is but i really need help getting it to go away

Could be a form of malaise which I tend to get at random times (not just when I'm getting sick). Malaise is a feeling of general discomfort, uneasiness and nausea.

so i'm 17 and have been dating this girl for 3 months now and i'm pretty crazy about her, i wouldn't say i'm in love with her. for the first 2 months everything was fine. however in the past month i sometimes get really sick around her, usually its when i know we are going to start fooling around, we aren't having sex yet and haven't talked about it so i don't understand why this is happening now when nothing has changed. last night i basically had to kick her out of my car because i felt sick and right after she got out i started gagging. i'm just confused as to why it only happens sometimes, i stopped eating whenever i'm around her because it seems to help when i don't eat. but what am i gonna do when we go to a restaurant or something. i think it started around the time i bought condoms. i knew i wouldn't use them but i just bought them to be safe the first time i felt sick was when i put one in my wallet when i went to see her. however i don't even keep them on me anymore because i thought the feeling would go away without them. i'm not willing to break up with her, she's so beautiful and we both say that we have never been this happy in a relationship before....i'm just so confused

Im 18 and also get this ive been with my girlfriend for 8-9 month and I started getting it like 2months ago I wasnt with her at the time because we were split up for a while but got back together but when I started getting them I just ignored it and then it carried on mainly when I wasnt with her worste ive got it is just now shes been at mine the whole weekend but now shes at home I sit and think when I get my sick times that tonight when I was thinking it hit me that I actually love her and the main fact that she loves me back over all my thinking and paranoia me cooming to this conclusion actually made me feel better weve been through the worst times together and ive even stopped smoking weed for her she never asked me to once but I knew she hated it. I love my girlfriend her name is shannon and I would die for her. Hope this helps you bud think what she acts like around you things you do together that you couldn't and they wouldn't also the times yous have been through so on so on realize if you love her through it all shes still with you she loves you back it might help I dunno but its helped me a bit From jason R

Hey, im 16 and iv had this a few times. going back about 6 months ago i dated this girl from my school, at the time i was 15 she was 16, she was a year group above me but when we started getting really close the only thing that happened to me was a change in feeling in her from a friend to more of a lover. but as we got closer and closer she started coming over to my house just about 5 times a week. my family loved her and really liked her.   One thing about her though is that she was sexually active if you know what i mean, me on the other hand, iv done things with girls sexually and kinda lost it but not i dont know but i dont think it really counted but long story short she had experience with sexual things and i didnt really.   Remember how i said she would come over alot? yeah well with all that we would start getting a bit more touchy touchy ;) , but just having her over i was fine but if she sat down next to me and put her hand on my leg or we would cuddle and she would ask me if i was ok because my body temperature would rise i always responded with "yeah im fine babe" because i really did feel fine but after a few more minuets of what ever we would be doing and i would start to feel sick and i would throw up just about every time it happen :(   long story short of that, we broke up because of it which makes me quite upset but as of now i have my really close best friend and im starting to get the same feeling around her but its just around her not doing anything, not to add she has a boyfriend and i respect that and hes a pretty cool guy but yeah. after looking for a bit about all these feelings, most people say its social anxiety and just trying to be strong and more social should help you.   sorry for the long response just had to make a point.

I have been gettin the same thing,when I talk to my buddy on the phone I felt sick on to stomache ,he was my neighbor who just moved away, so I am not sure what this means and looking for anwsers

lol I got a laugh of this one,and I feel the same way should i just end the relationship,lol

I haven't read all the posts but I seem to be in a minority of someone feeling sick after a negative experience with their girlfriend. My girlfriend got pretty violent and has been emotionally abusive as well. She is very apologetic about it afterward when I say I am going to leave about it, but after the last blow up which was very big I can't think about having sex with her anymore without feeling sick. For me I think it may be my unconscious giving me a nudge to end the relationship.

Sounds like either you are really developing something (illness) or the chemistry of your relationship is not right.