I feel sick when im near my girlfriend...why?
299 answers - active on Dec 1st 2021
Please help me, for i have tried everything i can think of without going to a doctor!!! For the past 3 months i have been phyically and mentally ill and im not sure why. The biggest symptom of all of this is that when im with my girlfriend whom i love with all my heart, i feel phyically sick to my stomach, and because of this i start thinking all kinds things like maybe i don't love her, or maybe im gay or something. These thought i more often then not I can't control and they will ravage me for hours. Sometimes i get these thoughts when i think about her or talk on the phone with her too, and i don't understand why. It's not just her though, sometimes i feel like this when im alone, or when im at work, and im not sure if its because i constantly think about her or bring her into my thoughts to try and show myself it just isn't her and its something else in my life causing it or what. Thing is though sometimes i feel sick around her, sometimes i don't, sometimes i feel more sick when im alone or at work and i feel fine around her. Lastly the only other symptom i seem to be having is regardless of wether im around her or not i haven't eaten well in 3 months either as food makes me nauseous when eating it sometimes and the thought of eating is an unpleasant one. I love my girlfriend with everything that i am and am willing to do anything (except give her up) to feel better...please if there is anyone out there who has been in my shoes or knows anything, your wisdom would be priceless. Thanks =)
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Yeah me to it's really werd!
i am 17 and have never been in love with anyone before, i met this guy a few days ago and i feel sick all the time, i don't want to eat very much food, i just want to talk to him 24/7 (i met him online, he lives in Au an i live in the U.S) the time zones are different and so are the days of the week. i feel like i am going to throw up all the time waiting to talk to him.
i think i'm love sick? i have heard other people talk about this but i never knew it was this bad maybe there's a why to fix it and fast!
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Y'all niggas is wack.. Stop doing dem drugs and feel better.. Relationships is supposed to make y'all feel good not get all sick an cray cray.. Man up and stop actin like little bitches around your woman.. Woman like to be dominated by men not worshipped until the point of sickness by weirdos like y'all.. You gonna drive her away.. So stop actin a fool and get it together or enjoy a long lonely life wishin you listened to me..
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It sounds like you're suffering from relationship ocd. I'm sure you love her and don't give up on her
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Look up relationship ocd. It's an anxiety disorder and ignore the post above
Its relationship ocd. look it up
it is posiable to be alergic to a person
hiv can cause food nausia
you may be reacting to imune sytem overload from sharing germs with her
the is a psychological exestential shift that occurs through intamacy that moves your spiritual center of gravcity off its norma centerdness and eventually finds a new balance that take s both parties into account
the re are pheromone reactions to hormones and nuerotransmiters that a can also be involved
it is not uncomon for boys ion puberty to say that they get naucious or dizzy or have vertigo around girls
mnany people say that they cant eat sleep or think straight when falliung in love.
there is a dewfinates biological and psycological syndrome that occurs with men when around new relationships especially less esperienced males. or a new type of female with a different horonal spectrum every one has a different profile.
bottom line you are probably falling in love youll get used to it and it wont be so bad
put her panties in a bag and smell them when shes gone and see if it triggers the symptoms. then just talk on the phone. that will seperate if its hormones of pycological.
stay strong theres somethiong wrong wit h you but its normal and lots of people hve gone throughj it. back in the old days someone could have explained it better.
watch a marathon of a lot of leave it to beaver shows it will work i promise - seriously! and no you not gay bacause youy dont use dildos give guys blow jobs or have secret physical atrations to good looking talk guys with pants bulges. glancing over at the urinal doesnt count i promise.
i have just had the same thing! im 14 and turning 15 in two weeks and this boy he said that were dating and when i met him outside with my bike, after awhile i felt really sick of being by him, and i was really shy and afraid he would touch me or something. and we like just started dating
I think your girlfriend has multiple personality disorder or she is demonic
That doesn't make much sense. You met a boy outside who said you were dating and you were afraid he might touch you so you started dating him because you were really sick of being by him.
Tell us how that went, please!
Hey guys , I too have this same feeling , it's annoying because when I started seeing my girlfriend about 6 years ago it was amazing never worried about anything . Now everyone I'm with her I feel nervous and anxious . And when we have sex I feel really sick .. And sometimes am sick . And the weird thing is Iv tried everything slept with a woman to see if it was just my girlfriend and it was .. But I know I want to be with her I love going down on her love having sex with her love being with her .. Whats the solution
I feel this way and am 42. Here's why, my opinion, either we don't see that person often and everytime is like starting new. Afraid of rejection or that we, deep down know they are not for us. And yet afraid of been alone. It's just a feeling, that we need a moment to ourselves find ourselves and a replacement, that's all. Go out more often without that person and if you feel the same, as I do, it's just means they are not for us...
OMG this happens to me sometimes, when I wake up, I'm automatically already sick to my stomach and I start thinking about my boyfriend. It's terrible! I can't eat early in the morning for school or anything-
It's fine sometimes, and occasionally I think it's not even the thought of him upsetting me idek anymore:(
it is anxiety but it usually shows itself in the digestive area because that may be where you have a weak stomach and the responsibility of the relationship and where it is heading is adding to the stress level it will not go away some people just have this problem when it comes to stress, take for example some persons get instant diarrhea when they hear bad news you may have to run test to see what and why from a gastrologist
This is brilliant
Man i feel you 10000000000%. I am currently go through this right now !!!! I could definitely relate!!
