I feel sick when im near my girlfriend...why?

I get this all the time, but my story is kinda different. I never had this feeling ever in any relationship until 2 years ago, when I was 22 years old. I fell in love with a girl and we spent every day together, and I never had the sick feeling in my stomach. After about 6 months of dating, I catch her cheating on me. It completely took me by surprise and I was sick and throwing up after finding out. Anyways, we got back together for a short time. But anytime I was with her, I would feel sick and want to throw up. It killed my appetite. We used to have dinners and everything together and I just couldn't eat ANYTHING when I was with her. So I figured it was just because she cheated on me. Anyways, I dated other girls after her and never felt that feeling again. Then I started dating my current girlfriend. I immediately started really liking her. I have only been dating her for a month. Everything was fine the first two weeks, until randomly one day: BOOM. I get the sick feeling again when we are out to dinner. And it's almost worse now. I can't eat anything around her. I always make the excuse that I'm not hungry but I don't know what to do. I love her so much and she loves me too, but I caan't get over this. If I smoke some weed, I feel completely fine around her. But sober, I can barely be with her. I need to fix this some how. I know it's all mental. I thought it was just caused by my old GF cheating on me, but this girl amazing and would never cheat, and I still get it around her.

I get this too , but also sometimes I am physically sick because of it don't know what it is

youre probably a little gay

This is exactly what I have, except I'm a girl. Whenever I think of him I feel very sick, even though I love him very much.

Smoke some weed dude! I have the same problem and it only feels better when I'm high...I'm so serious just try it

I feel the same way too. I kept constantly feeling sick in my stomach whenever I am with her. I can't shake it off and sometimes it wil last till the next day. She is perfect to me. We are not even in a serious relationship, but just seeing each other. The feeling only started after 2-3 months in our "exploration phase". I was looking up articles online and speaking to a counsellor about it. What gave me more insight was an article I read talking about how our gut can tell if the person we are dating is suitable for us. It's like a little warning sign or a crystal ball predicting our future. Like our DNA in our body show signs ig he/she is not genetically suitable for us. Our body can pick up signs faster than our brain. I just has this feeling yesterday when I was with her. I was really disturbed and I took the morning to read more articles about this problem. That's where I landed myself on this thread. Let's keep each other updated. Meanwhile read up on articles talking about gut feelings.

I just wanted to say I have the exact same problems as everyone else here. For a little over a year I've been chatting with this girl online and ever since we met online she has been the nicest person I've ever spoken with. We're both 20 years old right now. For a very long time I had no trouble chatting with her. I would feel normal every time we both took some time for each other. These chats with her would always help me relax and get rid of some of the daily stress. But everything changed recently, it started about three weeks ago. We've started to realise we are really similar and that we actually really love each other. We really opened up to each other and talked about our feelings together. The problem with all of this is that we live on the complete opposite sides of the world. We can never have a life together. We've told each other we both deserve to find someone in our own area who we love just like we love each other. We came to the conclusion that we can still love each other, but more as just friends, which we both have nothing against. We have talked openly about how we should have sex when we meet up in the future and even what that sex would be like. I think it's amazing how open she is with me about this kind of stuff. I've never felt this close to anyone before because of it. Ever since we opened up to each other three weeks ago, I've been feeling sick every time we take some time to chat with each other. So sick to the point where I start shaking uncontrollably (not because of the cold or hunger) and I have to vomit and I sometimes even completely lose interest in drinking and eating because I know I'll just vomit again. Sometimes this goes on and on for a few days, even though we don't chat during those days. Every day I just can't stop thinking about her! I really love her for who she is, I would never want her to change, but I'm just so afraid to lose her too. I have no idea why I feel this way, because I know she wouldn't leave me just like that. I've told her about these problems I'm having and she has been very kind to me about it. I just know she doesn't want to leave me, especially now that we've opened up like this. I have never liked a girl like this before. I've only kinda been in a relationship once, when I was about 8 years young, but the love was one-sided because she really loved me, hugged me and kissed me on the cheeks the whole time but I didn't love her back at all. It was just a one week thing, as far as I can remember. I've never been interested in having a relationship with any girl either, because I feel like that would only distract me from growing in society. I want to finish school and get a good job before I even think about having a relationship with anyone in the area. I want to have a stable life first, you know? I desperately need help, I don't know what to do anymore! I want to stay in contact with her and meet her one day, but I feel so sick just thinking about her! I feel like the only thing that can cure me is if I see her in person and spend some time with her doing all sorts of fun things. That's easier said than done, because neither of us have the time or the money to arrange something like that (plane tickets are damn expensive!). Am I being too attached to her? Is it some form of anxiety? I just want this feeling to go away, but I can't and don't want to let go of her!

Bro you not alone in so gald I found this post

Try tapping. Go goggle EFT tapping. All the best.

I don't know mine has lasted 2 1/2 years more close to three

Psychologists do not prescribe medication.

Wow, okay. This is obviously a problem with a lot of people. I thought I was just some freak or something. Anyways, I've been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now, both 17, and we're madly in love with each other. I started getting nauseous one time 3 months in at a dance, and even threw up. Then it happened again on a date with her. Then, it just stopped. My dad told me it was all in my head and that if I tell myself "I'm not gonna throw up, you're better then this. Stay confident. Do it for her." And it went away. I could eat around her and everything. It was all alright. However, lately, we've been talking about getting more intimate. More sexual. And now I can't even go to school with her without feeling nauseous after a little amount of time. I guess I stopped doing what my dad told me and now it's happening again. Resolution: Just stay confident. It's all mental. As long as you keep telling yourself not to and you're better then this, you'll be fine. It's a mix of your mental state that you've linked your partner with throwing up and that every time you see them you feel it, and butterflies from nerves. Keep your head up, stay confident, and tell yourself it's not them, you have to fix this yourself or they will leave.

Hey there. I had an internet relationship for a few years. This is normal what you are going through in this situation. I've been there. Lack of sleep, anxiety, sickness and feeling tension comes hand in hand. The issue is in your situation there is no resolution. How can you be when she is in one place and you another and be in love with each other? Your going to have to make a decision. Go meet her or get on with your life. At the time for me there was no one else on the planet that could compare or even have a chance. I got to the stage where i had the money to buy a ticket and go or pay for a Course for a year. I heard some bad stories... some good too about internet relationships. But I really thought about. Can you move to another country? Can she? Can you or her live without your families and friends? Really think about this.That's what is going to happen. I thought about it and she did too. I couldn't live without my family and friend's... and she knew she couldn't either. My Grandmother was an immigrant and she told me how she longed for home for about 7 years. This is a serious decision. We decided we had to let it go. We are still friends and it's been about 10 years. She got married and has a kid and 1 on the way. it took some time but we both got on with lives in time and have a great relationship. You will always have that with her.

Don't Lave him. Talk to him about it. Make sure he understand it is serious and not to too blow it off.

It's been an interesting read. Today I started feeling sick about a women I like. I'm questioning myself why? Firstly she is seriously very attractive smart women. I'm still wondering why she said yes to go out on a date with me. I'm not ugly but no model, don't have an amazing job, fancy car or lots of cash. These are things we are told women are interested in. This women appears to not hold those things as necessary which I'm still trying to get my head around. It's really brings up a lot insecurities in me. Am I enough for her? The fact that I'm asking myself that question puts me in fear that I will throw away the chance because I'll reject her before she has the chance. I'll tell myself she wouldn't want me so may as well end it. I've always been a believer in going with your gut instinct.I think that is important in life. But in this instance I feel like it's about my own issues. If we are not right for each other so be it. But I don't want things not to work out because I was afraid to give it a chance. We had a first date and it was a bit of a disaster. It ended ok but I'm sceptical that she will even go on another date with me again. I've been out of the game for many years and feel like I'm not too good at wooing a women. My heart was broken a long tome ago almost 2 decades., I was internet relationship for years. Been on a handful of dates and had I suppose is the normal amount of one night sands you live to regret. Had a bad period of abuse in my teenage years which no doubt still has an impact 20+ years later. In the end why I feel sick. I think because I'm scared that she might reject me.. or already has. That she will find out I'm not enough for her. That I'm to interesting or a good person. I'm trying to confront that in myself, look at it ,write about it and be as honest as I can, have a cry about it, let it go so I can be free of it so then it not left effecting my decisions in life. This might take some time. We shall see.