don't like nipples to be touched

Guest over a year ago

Look up sensory processing disorder and sensory integration dysfunction. Some people are over responsive to touch (tactile stimulation). They might find tags on clothing unbearable, someone brushing past them in public feels awful, hairbrushing might feel unpleasant too. I expect that someone who is over responsive to touch would not like their breasts being touched either. Breasts are a particularly sensitive area too.

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Guest over a year ago

I also don't like my nipples being sucked. I don't mind being touched on the breasts, but I always feel "dirty"? when my bf sucks on them. I think it has to do with my maternal instinct, like I feel like (for me personally) those are for babies, not for men. I used to want to try to force myself to enjoy it, but I think it's okay for everyone to have their preferences in bed. It's kind of ridiculous for every person to be expected to enjoy every single option in bed. We are all individuals, and we all have different comforts and discomforts, and that's okay. I don't think there's anything wrong with any of us, we just have our own preferences. There are foods I don't like, there are scents I don't like, there are movies I don't like, so it's perfectly natural for there to be sexual actions I don't like too.

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Guest over a year ago

I have the exact same issue. I think multiple inputs count that consequence in. Maybe it's linked with mother issues (because the nipples are the very first thing you're eating from), at least that's what my therapist advised.

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required harbour over a year ago

While im relieved to know there are other women who feel hist like I do the fact still remains what can I do about it. Can’t live with this feeling. Wish I could have nipples surgically removed.

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Guest over a year ago

Hey I came to this thread to look for an answer as I’ve been feeling the same thing and I found something on the internet recently called “sad nipple syndrome”. I don’t really feel depressed or anything but I feel REALLY icky about my nipples most of the time. Hopefully this may describe what you’re feeling? Good luck finding an answer!!

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Guest over a year ago

Hopefully things have gotten better for you in that area. I respect that some things don't do it for some people, but as a woman breast stimulation is something I very much enjoy.

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Guest over a year ago

I have a problem with my nipples being touched unless I'm being, ahem, stimulated in other areas. Forgive the explicit nature of this comment, but say if I am in position on top and he plays with them, it pushes me to orgasm. But if they are the first thing he touches I get like full on angry about it. I don't like this cause he loves them and I want to make him happy to, but it just doesn't turn me on.

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Guest over a year ago

I have a problem with my nipples being touched unless I'm being, ahem, stimulated in other areas. Forgive the explicit nature of this comment, but say if I am in position on top and he plays with them, it pushes me to orgasm. But if they are the first thing he touches I get like full on angry about it. I don't like this cause he loves them and I want to make him happy to, but it just doesn't turn me on.

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Guest over a year ago

Female breasts are not for your sole pleasure. U make females feel victimized

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Guest over a year ago

Me too im very disturbed by it, I cant even watch it on tv, and because of this I get a bit of an anxiety watching sex scenes. when I was younger I didn't have this phobia. My first trauma started when I breastfed my daughter, I was still kinda ok but then slowly couldn't stand it...not even an accidental graze. my ex-husband knew about this but one day I was asleep and felt him sucking on them. Ever since then I have been traumatized. I can no longer watch it on tv or stand a sound of it. I hold my breast or cuddle myself tightly when I sleep. Sometimes I fantasize chopping off my breast/nipple because of it.

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Guest over a year ago

I've always had this issue, no matter which man I was with. When somebody says you should try, you miss out... That's pure nonsense. How can you miss out on something that's unbearable and turns you off completely because you are fighting the hands off as if you were raped, even with a loving and loved husband.
However, they are no longer off bound when I am really aroused, then it becomes enjoyable... The issue is that men like touching them as it turns them on even more, so yes but later...
At 64, my issue is that libido has virtually disappeared and the later in the sex act doesn't happen!!! He tries, bless him!

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Guest over a year ago

I've always had this issue, no matter which man I was with. When somebody says you should try, you miss out... That's pure nonsense. How can you miss out on something that's unbearable and turns you off completely because you are fighting the hands off as if you were raped, even with a loving and loved husband.
However, they are no longer off bound when I am really aroused, then it becomes enjoyable... The issue is that men like touching them as it turns them on even more, so yes but later...
At 64, my issue is that libido has virtually disappeared and the later in the sex act doesn't happen!!! He tries, bless him!

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Guest over a year ago

You are right, I am sure. It is just the way we were created. Glad to know there are others...

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Guest over a year ago

Omg I always have this! I get a weird sense of rage and I've even slapped my boyfriend round the face before just as a reflex. Like my body reacts before I have time to think lol. But the weird thing is if I focus on how much I dislike the feeling and how angry it makes me that he's making me feel so gross, I can orgasm lol. Like if I focus on how gross the situation makes me feel it ends up making me finish... Very strange I know. Then the minute I'm done I can't bear to carry on anything intimate. Very bizarre.

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Guest over a year ago

That was so refreshing to hear a male speak that way! I used to some what enjoy this, actually maybe a normal amount but the same thing happened to me after I had a baby and then had my ex force himself to suck them…. all the time and would get SO upset with me for asking him not to or saying I don’t like it. made me feel really icky. Never liked it since lol I think whatever reason you have is valid

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