I'm also 22 I masturbate regularly basically every day. This whole post is c**p. Premature ejaculation is a psychological problem and has nothing to do with masturbation they are completely different as masturbation involves you on your own in a comfortable environment . Sex on the other hand involves emotion and the element of surprise and more intense pleasure. I suffered from this same problem from at the age of 16, it wasn't until I hit 18 I discovered how to become a better lover. No BS I can F@#K for an hour now if I want to and its pretty simple use your head! Whilst having sex try not to think or let the pleasure get the better of you think about something you have planned tomorrow or what you had for dinner the day before, and every now and then focus back on the sex. Another major factor is obviously making a girl ejaculate before you which can sometimes take a while or sometimes they almost get there then they lose it, women are a nightmare to satisfy not only in the bed but in every way possible. Here is a technique that has made every girl I have drilled go crazy. First off if she is not a s*** you could start by kissing her slowly (you could just use your hands if she is a w****) and softly from her lips to her neck slowly down to her tits (If she is naked, if not now is the time to take her top off) gently breath on her tits and kiss them softly don't go licking or sucking them yet (women need to build up to orgasm 1 step at a time just remember that #1 piece of info) slowly kiss your way down her belly towards her p***y when you get to the p***y don't kiss it but gently breath hot air over it as you pass to the inside of her thighs kiss up and down each leg to the knee no particular way just try to make it sexual and unrehearsed when you think she is ready slowly kiss her clit so so softly then back to the the thighs teasing her as much as possible then when you think she is ready kiss her puss more firmly then begin to lick her clit when she is really hot stick a finger or two in there then when she is begging for your penis (trust me she will literally be begin for penis) slip it in but remember build up. What I do is slowly put more of my penis inside every time I pull and push she might even pull you in herself if she that turned on but here is a position that gets every girl. Start missionary her on her back ,legs apart. On top of her get your penis in as far as it will go and apply pressure with the bone above your penis to her clit, dont thrust in and out instead sort of grind or slightly rotate your hips so the bone above your penis is rubbing against her clit and your penis still fully inserted. This is stimulating her clitoral area and g spot just keep going until she cums and trust me when she cums it pours. As long as you and your lover both get the pleasure you desire then thats all that counts and when you have solved this problem you are probably going to find something else to feel ashamed of. Just be yourself and don't pretend to be anything your not people will hate but thats the first sign of success. Trust me this works and I wank every day;)
Hi, thanks a lot for this post. Most u guys masturbated since 12. I m sine 10 or 11, I mean before my were sperms grown! & I have PE since my first time - it takes 2-5 mins depending how frequently I masturbated. I haven't had sex yet, I am 24 now and now I am concerned. I heard from other guys not to focus on my pleasures similar exercise solution like urs 'reverse masturbation'; so I have the confidence to get through it. But what I am most concerned is to regain recalling performance. U wrote u got rid of PE, but could u get rid of health problems like memory loss, loosing intelligence, hair loss, etc. Can herbal medicines help to restore health these problems? Did they at least work for you?
Thanks in advance for your response.
-- Erfan --
i am 21 and i think i am releasing after 2-3 minute.and my penis does not get full erection .i am a virgin. and i am really frustrated about this.can anyone there help me with suggestions.plzzzzzz
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thanks for this post , i just want to ask u tht i think i have this problem , do u think it is bcoz of body weakness or something like tht ?? my problem is tht the tip of my pennis is very sensitive , when ever i watch a porn n when my pennis get into the erection mode , if i only start rubbing the tip of my pennis softly , i ejaculate within 10 secs , wht do i need to do ?? i stopped masterbating in between for 3 yrs n nw tht i am 22 , i do it nt often but once or twice in a month ..... wht will u advise for me ??
sir,now i am 22 year old boy,when i was 13 i used to masturbate 3 or 4 times daily,and in this way i ejaculate too much,lose lots of semen from my body..,i continued this process for 4 years,then i stopped doing this,but after it i feel that i am suffering from poor health now,my body gets weakened day by day,i get tired soon,mostly pain in my lower back,legs,arms and other part of body,my knees just look like an empty cap having nothing inside,..sometime blurred vision,when i even talk about sex or romance with my girlfriend i got severe pain in my back, i think i lost all of my energy dut to over masturbation and hand practice in my early age,and im not able produce baby in future...sir plz suggest me something that what should i do now??is there any chance of my recovery,,could i enjoy good healthy and sexual life in future?can i satisfy my life partner sexually in future after marriage,may i able to produce baby in my life in future??sir plz suggest me something i am in great trouble plz help me...what should i do now..????i would wait for your answer...
masturbating has actually helped train myself to last even longer!
I understand the pain you have been thru man i feel it. I am also plagued by this disease ever since i was about 14-15 n now im 22 goin 23. Most of the time i just wish i never ever discovered masturbation ..n then maybe my whole body n psyche woudnt be this messed up... I give you 2 thumbs up though for getting over it . Must have took alot, mentally to quit.If only it was so easy . well im trying myself by TRYING to fap like once a week... but i feel like im failing cuz eventually i succumb to the urge to do it constanly... I have read so much about the dangers of over masturbation n yet i still continue even sum of these symptoms are plaguing me nowlike the memory probz , lack of focus, ED and worst of all PE... By reading yur doh i realize doh that there many out there like me that seek a cure but as well all know its easier said than done rite..ANd again great job to you man. Well now im seeing if i can fix cuz im weight lifting (as a skinny guy) taking fishoil centrum zma turned on goat weed maca n tribulous terrestris yea all of thos vitamins n herb sh*t.. just hope they dont enlarge my prostate... Well i will see how it works out .JUST TRYING TO GET BETTA...See Ya!!!
thanks bro!!
when i was 16 year i was a very intelligent guy . but as i started watching porn over internet ,and start masturbating almost daily i got all these problem you mentioned. but i also developed a bad habit actually i used to rub my erected pe**s inside my pants over bed and i do not ejaculate as my pe**s is strongly pressed with bed. do i have some problem if i just stop the ejaculated to come out by strongly holding it.
Well done man! I have been looking at sites all night about P.E. Heres my story... I started jerking and cumming when i was 12...first had sex at 14 with a hooker, didnt cum. But after that i started having sex quite a lot. But i would always be drunk. On nights out. never had a girlfriend and never really had sex sober! but i remember a couple of times when i was 16 having sex sober i would cum really quick. Now Im 20 and finally have a girlfriend. But my P.E is getting worse. I have stopped jerking for about 2 or 3 weeks but still no difference. I dont know what to do. My gf says its fine that its just a phase. but we all know she might be thinking different! HELP
hei man how is progress? I am also struggling sometimes here, but i need to make bigger steps. So if you still interested to have somebody to talk about progress just let me know.
Hey I'm 18 year old and i ejaculate since my 5th class now im in 12th standard and i comes in less a minute plz help me what to do. i am afraid when my gal ask me to let have some sex what i can do