I hate meat curtains its nasty to look at and its not normal
I have large labia. Comments like yours are the ones that bothered me the most. Mine were large before I ever had sex. And I'm really confused why the people that feel the way you do or actually think a woman has been around a lot because of her large labia don't see one VERY valid point: If large labia were a sign of a woman who has been "used" too much, then wouldn't seeing large labia in pornos be pretty common?? I know a lot of woman have a reduction down there, but a lot never will even consider it, and some of those woman make a living off of selling their porn dvds. Just saying my opinion. It's sad that these comments are made, but I guess we all make comments that can be insulting when we aren't fully aware of something. I also think it's sad that so many women and young girls feel bad about how their vagina looks, I know because I felt that way ever since I noticed mine didn't look like the ones I normally seen in porn but it's the same way about small or large boobs ladies. Some men are turned off by small boobs, but a lot don't care either way! Before I was self conscious of my large labia I was self conscious about my smaller boobs, lol. Point is, there will always be a chance that someone you meet won't like you down there, but there's always a chance that someone will love you down there too. That goes along with the rest of the features we have as well. If they don't like it, at least you'll know and can find someone who will think it's a treasure :-) The jokes, ignore them. There's a lot of woman who make fun of penis size and I find that equally mean....but you get a man who is good in bed and the size doesn't matter, it's the attitude/desire to want it/desire to please as much as receiving. So, the more self conscious you are about the less you will be able to enjoy and be yourself during sex. As you can see, most men don't really have a preference. Some do and like them small, but there are still lots of men that like them large too. What happens if you get them reduced and meet someone who would have preferred them the way they were before? That seems like it would be more upsetting than being with a closed minded person who really can't enjoy the fact that all vaginas are unique in their own way. I know I would much rather find someone who enjoys what I have vs. finding someone who will only want me if I had surgery. Our labias big or small, are beautiful flowers that love attention :) So, work on accepting what you have and please know, above all that it is normal. (That was one of my issues, thinking I was a freak or something.) Large labia are more common that a lot of you think and here's a bit more advice that helped me....Go on some sites, look at the pictures of large labia and maybe you'll start to see them as attractive too. We are our own worst critics. There's a site called Labiaforum dedicated to large labia woman. They post lots of pics and I must say, even being a woman I found them all sexy. Don't few yourself as abnormal or undesireable...Large labia are enjoyable for lots of men! But, work on finding them beautiful yourself too. That'll help with confidence and eventually you'll know to not worry about the jokes some people make and realize that even though some find them unattractive, theres plenty more out there that find them amazing. Sorry this was so long, I got carried away but hopefully it'll make someone feel a little better....
i love large labia :-) and a 33 yr man
We love big labia ,keeps ur juices flowing
The bigger the better!!! My ex's were so long that they were sometimes cold to the touch! Loved warming them up with my mouth, however
I've had women of all ranges - from nothing to large and personally I can say without a doubt that bigger is better - by far. Much sexier looking, better feeling and a lot more fun, especially oral sex. Keep what you have, you're special
Thank you so much, I was so scared for someone to see my labia but now, I kinda cant wait! :#) but my sisters always made fun of mine cause they had small labias... But know I know that it is really hot to have them large,
So the next time in bed im gunna show them like they are gold, plus your comment was a turn on so thank you<3
For myself, I like large labia very much. It's my favorit size of labia. Somtimes I can say it's for me because it's recomanded to all women by the traditions of my tribe. In facts, it's also my personly favority for my sexual desire. I like to play with large labia under sex act. I like it so much.
I've had sexual relationships with women that had zero labia to one that whose lips hung down 3 inches and everything in between and I can tell you with out reservation that longer lips are far sexier. Some guys might like the "pre-pubescent" look but not me. Not only are they sexier looking but the sex itself was much better. Oral sex with an "endowed" woman is fantastic. In my book, no lips is "boring", plain and simple. This is not to say that I base my relationships strictly on how long a womans lips are but given the choice I take more over less any day and twice on Sunda
I agree - who came up with this notion of what "normal" is? I've had relationships with women that encompassed the spectrum from none to long and I'll take long every day of the week. This is the female version of guys worrying if their penis is big enough only in reverse. Some guys like the "pre-pubescent" look but I think bigger is far sexier. Ladies, if you have them stop worrying and flaunt them. There are a lot of us out there that think you have a gift, not a curse
You must be young and inexperienced or have a penis the size of a chipmonk
Bigger is better. I was with a girl who had very long lips. I was in heaven. I couldn't stop licking and sucking them. Now I can't sleep with a girl who doesn't have big labia. Which is a real problem since you don't know until your in bed together. Please don't change what you have.
Long Labia Lover
Chicks! please understand that all labia is beautiful, just shower everyday.
I have never one that I have not liked, and I have looked to 100's, maybe thousands.
You are beautiful! love yourself.
I'm 18 years old and I'm still a virgin, By choice I might add,But it was always because of this. My labia lips are fairly large and I always thought that when the time comes for me to be with a guy that he would run in terror. This made me feel so much better! It also tells me I need a man and not a boy. Damn porn lol
Do you mean labia minora? 'Labia' = 'Lips'. You have 3 sets of lips: 1 set on your face and two sets in your vulva - labia majora and labia minora. Just as facial lips vary, so do vulval lips You have identified one of the dangers of porn - a false presentation. Often pictures are edited to conform to certain rules. Be proud of the body God gave you.