Lack of use ; simply lack of use!!
Incorrect. Just because a woman has a looser p***y doesn't mean she's promiscuous and conversely just because a woman has a tight p***y doesn't mean she's inexperienced. There is naturally variation in not only the appearance but also the tightness of a girls p***y (albiet things like doing kegels and pushing a baby out and having sex do alter tightness). Anyway my mother had too narrow a birth canal to give natural birth so my brother and I had to be delivered by caesarian so genetics play a role
Love large labia! Do not get labiaplasty, it's butchery! You are great the way you are!
Men...what is better to you? Large or small labia?
For me better, when inner labia bigger than outer labia! I love big long inner lips. And bigger mean BETTER for me! :)
I have ALWAYS been far more attracted to and some much more turnd on by and visualy stimulated to longer fleshier inner labia. Like the last post above me, love longer more the better in my book! I have herd the term " A Porn star p***y" when refering to women with not so pornouced or small petite labia, like that is supposed to be Hot or normal. But I assure you Thats soo not the case. Many many of us men love larger labia!! And theres a site
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and it supports woman who have large labias is most helpful. Its not for sexual arousal purpose either, but support.
that is ignorant. it is genetics. that is like saying a guy with a small penis has used it so often it has eroded. assenine.
I am a guy. Yes, I have had sexual fantasies of engaging in oral sex with a woman with large labias, but does that mean I wouldn't enjoy sex if she had smaller ones? No, of course not. When one is in a sexual mood almost anything or anybody is "hot." Do you know what I mean? I mean that any man who would not find you sexually attractive down there is not the right man for you, since he should enjoy you the way you are. If he even thinks you are too small or big then how is he going to manage bigger issues than our body parts? If he is so fixated on the small then he is clearly highly narcissistic and all about himself and is going to make a lousy partner. Agreed I am a 52 year old man with the hindsight and maturity of years, but heck I had to learn what love really meant through years of negotiation with the mostly only woman I have ever lived with and had a meaningful long-term relationship with. Sex MUST be negotiated. If it can't be, then you have the wrong partner. Some partners want oral sex, some hate it (but may let you do it now and then if it means that much to you), some girls like big penises and some like small and some (my kind of girl) couldn't care less. Same with boobs. Look at how fussy and comparative women are about their boobs - ridiculous. Find a man who finds you beautiful for who you are, including every fold of you. Do not mutilate your body for a man, stay as you are. I am sure you are really sexy as you are. Sex is, as they say, after all, in the HEAD, and not in the external organs.
large is better
Keep them large there is nothing like sucking on swollen labias
they are a turn on
I am so embarrassed by my vagina and large labia I haven't had any physical contact with a man for over 2 years. Since my divorce (was married for 20 years) I have had only one partner who constantly made fun of my lower region, and would part my legs and tell me it was disgusting....how do I move on and gain the confidence to be intimate with someone again, I don't want to go for surgery but I cant bear the thought of that happening again.....would really appreciate some words of wisdom!
Wrong partner!! Find another
This is abusive behavior. The first thing to understand is that his behavior is not normal, and he has a problem. The trauma this behavior caused you is distorting your thinking about yourself. Please consider counselling.
Normal men get turned on when they see a woman's vulva, not disgusted. This guy was cruel AND sexually messed up.
My labia are very lopsided. One side has that porn star look we've been talking about, and the other is large and even protrudes from my outer labia. I always thought this was a bit weird, but didn't really think or worry about it.
Every partner I've ever had has been turned on by looking at me down there, not because of the imbalance, just because it's hard wired into a normal man's brain to be turned on by p***y. :P The only man I've ever known to not like to look at p***y, is only turned on by a leg fetish, not by normal sex at all.
I doubt my partners really thought about my lip size either. Only one mentioned it, affectionately, as in the larger one was fun to play with and clearly more sensitive. I'm in a unique position to tell you that larger labia are more sensitive, and I'm very aware that getting "evened up" would take away some of my pleasure in sex.
The only partner I've had mention a preference was my last partner, before he ever saw me. He was younger than me, in his mid twenties, and had seen a lot of porn. He was turned on by large labia. He always wanted pictures and a video of me down there. At the time, I still wasn't even aware that people really noticed or cared about labia size. Too bad I can't link that pic to prove what I'm saying.
I get turned on by looking at pictures of vulvas myself, and I think that when the inner labia protrude, it's very sexy.
There is NOTHING sexier on a girl than long labia! Nothing! What a turn on!
same! i always thought mine were so ugly my first ever boyfriend in highschool told me that his ex girlfriends were smaller he like to see the hole lol? hes wasnt a real man! my boyfriend today says he loves mine the way it is and likes that its not gaping wide open! either way i feel more secure and when you accept yourself everything will work better down there and thatsa great benefit regardless big or small labs. we are all sexy to REAL men!